my fiancée dumped me a month ago.. she tried to commit suicide, I found her nearly dead and revived her. Her dad blamed me and tried to fight me. Her brother also blamed me and tried to fight me. She dumped me 5 days after being nearly dead. The paramedics said if I hadn’t of done CPR and got her breathing, it’s a slim chance she would have made it. After being dumped, I got so depressed about missing her that I was checked into a mental hospital against my will. She called the hospital and asked to speak to me. She then proceeded to tell me all the guys she’s fucking.. then called me an asshole and hung up. The crazy part is up until this point she was the perfect woman. Drove an hour to get me when I was stranded, bought me a laptop, sacrificed sleep when I got depressed and needed someone to talk to, paid my rent when I couldn’t afford it. And I did all that type of stuff for her. Maybe more. And 5 days after trying to kill herself she left me. Now I don’t recognize her. She’s cold and apethetic. A complete 180 degree difference. She posted something about me having ED on Twitter (for the record I don’t ) which I found out about because a buddy of mine sent a screenshot to me. She didn’t defend me to her dad when he tried to fight me, and followed me 3 blocks shouting threats. She texted me and told me I’m the reason she tried to kill herself.. she’s a stranger. She used to fix dinner and have it ready when I got home from work, leave me cute notes to read when I got home, woke up in the middle of the night to talk to me when I was having an anxiety attack, rubbed my shoulders when she could tell I was stressed (I didn’t even have to tell her I was stressed she just did it). And when we made love I felt the most incredible love ive ever experienced. I used to do cocaine and the high of making love with her was 100X better. And now she’s cold, apathetic and a complete stranger. She has borderline personality disorder... so who knows, maybe she’s not taking her meds. Need advice on how to move on! I need some perspective on this.
(I started talking to a new girl who’s a solid 8 and she says she really likes me and I’m cute and we have fun together but I still think about my ex constantly, especially memories)
TL;DR My ex used to be the kindest soul ever... she’s now transformed into a monster
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