Hearing conflicting techniques on escaping the friend zone

shugerdaddy · 2019-12-27T02:04:33+00:00

Listen man, i can tell by the way you're thinking about this that you're new to this. Not only that but you have oneitis and you're looking to find 'the way' to get out of the friend zone.

Yours and only for you, the best remedy is to cut contact completely.

Move on with your life, develop yourself, bang loads and then you'll realise you were pining over this thot wasting time.

ApollosSin · 2019-12-27T05:11:53+00:00

Do both

aubounty · 2019-12-27T08:28:24+00:00

I agree with shuger.

Stop initiating contact, go out and bang other girls and learn how the dynamics work. You are correct, girls will keep you around for validation.

I would stop talking to her, but post high value content on instagram and snapchat stories (get both of those...). I would also go out and make friends and try to have experiences with other girls.

Eventually, she will come around if you prove yourself not to be a little doormat. Either that, or you should get other girls in the process.

scarrax · 2019-12-27T15:03:26+00:00

First you have to understand what the friendzone actually is. It’s not just merely having a platonic friendship with a girl. When you’re in the friendzone it’s when a girl only sees you platonically while you hang around with her hoping for more or trying for more. She may have different reasons for this: maybe she genuinely likes you but only as a friend, or maybe she likes the validation, sometimes a bit of both. But the fact remains that she does not want to be more than friends for whatever reason, yet a guy will still try to pursue her anyway despite it probably being obvious.

The key thing to know here is any guy (or girl) who finds themselves in the friendzone is ultimately there because they keep themselves there. Someone can put you in the friendzone but it’s ultimately you and your actions that allow them to put you there in the first place.

The solution to getting out of the friendzone is to accept that breaking the status quo is ultimately out of your hands, and that any of your attempts are only you wasting your time. From there you can either embrace the platonic friendship on your terms while you pursue others, or you part ways with her and free yourself to pursue someone else.

JuliusJustice · 2019-12-27T03:56:04+00:00

You escape the friend zone but not being his/her friend. I don’t understand what’s so hard to understand every single time someone posts this topic here.

Title	Hearing conflicting techniques on escaping the friend zone
Author	darkopal23
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	December 27, 2019 1:42 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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