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[–]pitterpatter812 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She probably didn’t feel attracted to you / chemistry in person.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Did you guys joke around first. Did you drink a bit. Did you escalate. Or did you just go for it awkwardly
[–]Horror-Ad-2372 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
We talked for about 1 hour, made some jokes. She was giving me a hard time. Not standing very close to me. I tried to lightly touch her thigh a couple of times and looking her in the eyes and looking at her lips but as I said when I tried to put my arm around her she tossed it away. After that I said fuck this shit and tried to kiss her anyways cause why not but she wasn't feeling me. We drank a glass of wine each.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Could have been a shit test. When she threw your arm away next time pull back. Ignore her or start texting other women.
Going for the kiss right away without gaming her yourself is probably where you went wrong
[–]Horror-Ad-2372 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We talked for more than an hour before I went for the kiss but she gave me very few opportunities to flirt. What should I do next time and can I still redeem myself?
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Redeem yourself no. She will never come over again sounds like she was uncomfortable
In the future try to be very playful and fun.
[–]Horror-Ad-2372 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Got it. Thanks
[–]PoPoChao[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You gotta kiss when the moment is right and can’t force it. Even if a woman comes over your house and decides she probably wants to sleep with you, you still have to woo her. I’ve realized even when you give a girl a tour of your place and show them your bedroom, they get really nervous in there and don’t want you to make a move. They have to feel safe and comfortable. The last girl I had over, we talked and laughed for maybe an hour. I didn’t touch her or anything. Then I saw her just standing there and I just went for it. But we had already made out on dates before that. Idk, just has to be the right moment.
How do I know when is the right moment? And how can I create that sexual tension if she isn't helping me much?
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