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[–]MroyalM 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't need to go to clubs to meet women. Simple as that. You're in college man, girls will be everywhere, especially if you live in the dorm. Just learn how to start approaching them. And you have classes don't you? I'm sure there are tons of campus events too. The key to meeting women is just getting out there, do as many things as you can and just go talk to them. Don't wait for anything to fall in your lap, go take it.
[–]lifthearth6 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Stay up really really late and do your studying in public study rooms. It helps if you have something to offer other people like the popular group video games and a TV in your room. Join a sports team. There are flyers everywhere for weird events. Go to all of them. Friend-zone the hottest girls. If your friends are talking about doing something enthusiastically invite yourself along. Once you start drinking make sure you have a hookup for beer/liquor and bring some if you get invited to a party.
Basically don't be isolated and don't be unattractive.
[–]someguuy 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Is there something else you can recommend to make new friends? I'm 16 and from Germany. My problem is I dont even get to meet girls, cause I don't have real friends. I have some people to hang out with in school but I wouldn't call them friends, they are retarded too often, thats why I ask. I'm tired of them. I already thought of joining a sports team but going to events alone..I don't know. It's not that I cant talk to people but it feels awkward going alone to events.
So I need tips to make new friends, or I won't even get to meet Women. I'm not ugly and I'm able to talk to them.
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[–]lifthearth1 points 12 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
On the topic of how to act at events. If you don't have anything to do show up early and offer to help setting up or find the other early people and hang out with them. Don't feel self conscious about being alone there and DON'T TRY TO LOOK IMPORTANT BY PLAYING WITH YOUR PHONE (unless you texting friends to come meet you).
[–]someguuy 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for the informational text, helped me a lot!
[–]Doomsday_ 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meet people in your classes and occasionally suggest you meet for study sessions or grab lunch/dinner after class.
Join a student club/organization/group at your uni. This is a great way to pursue an interest and build value in your life while meeting people and expanding your social circle.
[–]Dredd82 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Having been 16 and in college in the US, I can tell you I missed SO MANY opportunities at school itself. Whether it was in the cafeteria or student study areas... I look back and kick myself. I thought my problem was that I couldn't get into bars/clubs as well, but now that I am older and wiser, I realize I missed so many signals from girls I met just at random places on campus. I was so busy thinking they weren't interested in me because of my age that I just thought all these girls were being nice to me. Some were, but others definitely were interested. Read up on this subreddit, and just go for it.
[–]CodeMagenta 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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