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[–]thedreamkillers 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
don't make any date or time related suggestions. leave the meta-work of scheduling into her hands. it's a good way to test if she's actually interested or not. just tell her to let you know when she's free (assuming you're still interested and don't want to ghost her yet.)
[–]Pristine-Theory-8109 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sent her this lmao
Hey Laura hope you feel better from your orthodontist meeting but a early message or call would’ve sufficient that you were busy today, instead of me having to clear my day for our date and calling you myself. If you don’t want to go on a date it’s fine but a direct answer is always appreciated. Have a great day
My interest is gone
[–]PatientAssociation62 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
that comes across as butthurt, passive aggressive, and confrontational. Maybe she really truly did have legit reason for cancelling. How do you think that text made her feel? It comes across as aggressive and pushy as well. Again, how do you think she felt reading that?
Instead...
"Hey Laura, hope you feel better. Seeing the dentist is not fun at all. Let me know when you feel better and are free so we can reschedule. Look forward to seeing you"
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This
[–]Strange-Committee-55 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should’ve let the “if you don’t want to go on a date it’s fine” part out and just say tell her to hit you up if you are ever down or something. But since you’re not interested anymore ig it doesn’t matter
[–]Pristine-Theory-8109 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I felt disrespected since I HAD to call her two hours before to only find out she had a meeting
[–]Codi_Banks 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound emotional lol. I know you are hurt but you shouldn't show it to the girl if you want to get with her still. Maybe something like this:
>Hey Laura, hope you feel better. How about you just go ahead and take some time to rest up and focus on work? Let me know when you do end up having some free time. Take care, enjoy your day. Don't work too hard ;)
Then ghost her.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I mean the fact that she expressed a reschedule was a sign that she’s still interested. That’s just my opinion though. I mean, maybe her mouth was actually hurting. Your follow up text made you sound really butthurt. Even if she was flaking on you, she’d have more respect for you if you just brushed it off and rescheduled or not even answer the text message at all (moving on)
[–]Pristine-Theory-8109 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh well
[–]Pristine-Theory-8109 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Doubt she is responding now…
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's all good, king. You live and you learn.
[–]Sup3rHD 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She is playing games, she is not interested. Have self respect and ghost,
The dentist part was a lie to flake
[–]PatientAssociation62 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would actually give her the benefit of the doubt or cut her some slack on this one. Unlike most of the bullshit excuses I hear that one sounds reasonable and legit. Has this happened before? How long are you into the relationship?
No but she never gave me a call or message, and found out at the gym when I called her to confirm our date, that’s when she told me so and now she wants to reschedule next week saying “I am working the entire next week but I MAYBE find someone to cover for me” like bullshit man either give me a yes or a no not a maybe. I’m not a dog that likes being played or having his time wasted. Thanks for the advice
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