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[–]vamsig66 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
This is what AMS preaches. Always hold your masculine frame.
[–]CleanLivingKing109 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Who’s AMS?
[–]vamsig66 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Alpha Male Strategies
[–]CleanLivingKing109 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Link?
[–]vamsig66 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Look him up on YouTube.
[–]CleanLivingKing1093 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thanks man.
[–]throwaway1236373 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I’ll have to check him out. I learnt from how to be a 3% man but you never know I may learn something new about this skill.
Lol honestly AMS preaches a lot of the same stuff that Corey Wayne does. It’s just more unfiltered and has a thuggish twist to it. A lot of people joke and say he’s the black Corey Wayne.
[–]throwaway1236373 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Alright gotcha bro. Do you recommend any videos of his in particular?
[–]vamsig66 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly all his videos are really informational. He’s certainly one of the better dating coaches. But where I think he stands out the most in my opinion is his videos on the female interest level concept, as well as as his videos regarding female nature and psychology, on both his YouTube and Patreon.
[–]throwaway1236373 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok I’ll check it out cheers lad.
[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Frames are very powerful but IMHO only work when they're very simple.
For example in one of Lance Mason's old Pickup 101 video courses he said his frame has just 2 points which he sticks to regardless:
1 ... she's into me
2 ... everything she does is cute (including shit tests and any other kind of resistance)
In practice these amount to, smiling and being happy and amused with everything that happens during an interaction. Not "acting" happy and amused but genuinely feeling it and letting is show.
[–]SevenOnEarth -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Be who you are. If you’re not, then it isn’t “your” frame.
No one has a set frame that you get when you’re born, you get your frame from social conditioning and the way you’re brought up. Therefore there’s no frame you should stick to.
Your advice is on the same level as “Just be yourself and you’ll get girls”.
[–]SevenOnEarth 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hmmm... “getting” “girls.”
For some seduction is about a genuine vibe between two genuine people. Holding your true self even when it might not get you laid will be sexy to the person who could actually care about you. Seduction can be about how to manage that.
Of course “being yourself” isn’t going to be appealing to any target who just wants to spread legs for your game face.
If you know who you really are, and you prefer to be something else to get laid, then maybe start with that issue before roping someone else into your self-loathing. And if you don’t know who you are, then find your genuine frame and learn how to hold it no matter the consequences.
Not sure why you brought up “getting” or “girls” all I said was your advice is practically useless and implies we should all just be ourselves even if we were socially conditioned to be the worst version of ourselves.
You seem to be attacking this as if I’m saying you shouldn’t be unique and authentic. What I am saying is changing something such as your ability to hold frame is improving a skill and as such doesn’t mean you’re inauthentic or not genuine. When you understand that a behavioural skill such as holding frame isn’t something that is you,you can then understand that it is authentic to improve it.
By your logic if I understand that I was taught how to throw a ball incorrectly and decide to learn again I am self-loathing. No you are simply accepting you’ve been taught the wrong way and deciding to grow as a person a learn a better way. Self-loathing is far from the truth in this example.
[–]SevenOnEarth 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess I’m starting from a space of knowing who I am. I’m not fighting the dragon of social conditioning as you put it. I dont struggle with some frame, I am what I am.
So I’m saying if you don’t know how to throw a ball, figure out what’s good about you and do that. Maybe ball-throwing isn’t what makes you shine. Getting better at something you’re possibly not or not good at - only because it might get you laid - is classic self-loathing.
Play in your space. Do you. This macho can-do stuff is for some people, not for everyone, and ultimately empty if the goal is an actual human connection.
If you don’t get why “getting girls” is a script for “I don’t know how to create genuine connections with human beings,” then please consider that a Web-cam girl and Fleshlight is always going to be cheaper than all the dating $ and stress of pretending to be someone a human being might actually like.
Yeah dude I understand that aspect of finding what you do well and keeping to it but my point stands that if you don’t know how to throw a ball it’s totally acceptable for someone to teach you the better more correct way.
Self-loathing is the hatred of oneself. So no understanding you have been socially conditioned to be one way and deciding you wanna be the better way to improve your life (not just getting laid) is not self-loathing. Personally, I agree that you are recognising bad things about yourself that can be improved but you aren’t actively hating on those things rather understanding it isn’t something unique to yourself rather something learnt and can be changed.
I also agree the the macho/strong frame man isn’t for everybody some men simply want to be submissive to women but the majority naturally prefer and are dominant men.
It’s not that I don’t understand what you mean by “getting girls” it’s the fact you randomly quoted it from nowhere my guy.
Anyway, you’ve been very polite in this discussion so you have my respect. Hope you have a good one bud :)
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