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How can I build a base for flirting that I can then develop on my own?

frost0r · 2018-05-10T11:41:43+00:00

I'm seeking some advise. I'm trying to get my game on and i"m terrible at flirting. I don't link up what to say very well or...

frost0r

May 10, 2018

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Title	How can I build a base for flirting that I can then develop on my own?
Author	frost0r
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	May 10, 2018 11:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]WIA20XX 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]JimBeamAndCoke2016 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]WIA20XX 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Guys want to be James Bond, Hank Moody, or Don Draper.

The dialogue in most of those don't translate to real life, but on mute, the slow and confident moves into the frame (film) sell the dialogue.

It is not what he says, it's how he doesn't react/aren't challenged when the girl challenges them. It's like your baby sister trying to punch you in the leg. It is more funny than a threat.

What you want to watch for dialogue are movies that women like. For example, Romance/romantic comedies where the sassy independent girl meets her match. The early scenes in those movies where they have banter, that's the flirting. The plot is usually she is mad, they go back and forth, and she's still mad...But can't stop thinking about "that jerk"

It is rarely about being right, it is all about feelings getting stirred up.