How can I get desensitised ?

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-03-19T10:28:31+00:00

You’re referring to outcome independence. Focus on the process not the outcome. It’s the social skills you are getting better at which is the main focus. Always be positive, never have self judgment. Learn to laugh at it all and turn it into a fun game. As long as you’re not making people uncomfortable you should be fine.

Guys that get good do alot of approaches and aren’t attached to outcomes. It’s all about social skill improvement and having fun with people.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-18T18:56:20+00:00

Instead of trying to make good approaches and get phone numbers, go out and do 15 approaches with the goal of getting rejected. Don't do anything stupid or offensive. Just walk up with your phone on your hand and say "Hi, I'm Bob. I thought you looked really cute and would love to take you on a date. If you are up to it, here, put your number in my phone and I will call you tomorrow to make plans". Do this until you get 15 rejections.

CrimsonBlackRonin · 2024-03-18T17:09:02+00:00

Sarcasm works for me, making them laugh has always worked for me. It breaks the tension

CantStopMe411 · 2024-03-18T17:25:45+00:00

It’s about comfort .. you gotta find something to talk about & something to relate to.

For example, if you’re a football fan and you know a lot about football and you see a woman wearing a hat of your favorite football team then you can approach her and say “nice hat, thats my favorite football team. where did u find a hat like that? i’ve been looking for a hat for a while” .. then watch the conversation begin!

Title	How can I get desensitised ?
Author	Ok-Leopard7744
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	March 18, 2024 5:04 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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