How can I make this girl react to me?

TheXXL · 2015-11-12T12:06:16+00:00

and I started to focus only on her.

Ouch... really bad choice.

Some would call it onenitis, but I just think she's worth pursuing.

That IS oneitis. It also does not matter how you call it, because you are focussing only on her! that IS oneitis! It is like if i would call a pile of dog shit chocolate, no matter how hard i try to convice anyone, it will never be chocolate...

I was kinda direct with her in the beginning, I straight up told her "I'm going to take you out for coffee". She said okay, but we never actually went out because of schedule conflicts.

That is a nice approach, but those schedule conflicts are a minor obstacle if you both want to meet up. I bet she's the one that has "no time".

The problem is - I can't really talk to her in that classroom (because its a freaking classroom)

Understandable, but what about after class? before?

and by texting, she is the hardest person to maintain a conversation that I've ever seen.

I might be one of the few people who prefer a real life conversation over a boring, emotionless and totally exhausting typing marathon, but everyone should do what they want.

In Whatsapp, she goes online for 30 seconds then disappear for one hour - how the fuck can I keep a conversation going that way?

Yeah, she seems to be also not that interested in boring, emotionless and exhausting typing marathons. So what about using your smartphone to actually call her? I mean, talking with your mouth? you know, those devices are built for talking.

So, any insights on this? I'm the verge of giving up, so anything you guys tell me will play a role in my actions. I'm really into this girl, really, but she makes me feel like the least interesting person ever by doing this.

There you have it again, you are so obsessed with this girl that you will probably fail horribly seducing her. You should always keep in mind that she's just a girl... one of approximately 3.5 billion women on this planet. That's being said, you should now that she is not a scarce resource that if you not get her, will be a loss you cannot live with. Relax, stop investing so much thought and time into her. Take care of your own live, and/or go after other girls. And only if she meets your expectations (being receptive, making time for you etc.) then you start investing in her. Take her off that fucking pedestal.

I had many girls do this to me in my life, and at first it destroyed me... then i began to learn, and nowadays, if a girl does not meet my expectations, she is not the right one for me, and i next her. It's that easy.

Don't let her destroy you. And believe me, she is already hitting you very hard in the balls -> "she makes me feel like the least interesting person ever"

GLOOTS_OF_PEACE · 2015-11-12T01:01:19+00:00

forget about the classroom and texting. Those aren't places to create attraction. Call her. Or if you still have class with her, square up with her. Ask her how she is, and then ask about that coffee again.

UnclassyGentleman · 2015-11-12T03:11:53+00:00

we never actually went out because of schedule conflicts.

Fix this. Call her, set up a date and then go on the said date. And then screw it up because you're so invested into this that you're screwing up your mind over some chick who you haven't been out with yet. And then, learn that lesson.

Title	How can I make this girl react to me?
Author	Lichewitz
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	November 12, 2015 12:56 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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