How can I stop fantasizing about a relationship before it has even started?

Joelburtacus · 2018-03-18T04:31:55+00:00

I do the exact same thing, and I don’t think there really is an off switch for it. The best you can do is distract yourself; spend time with friends, do your hobbies, or whatever else you enjoy doing.

Don’t worry; you’ll do fine.

Yog-Nigurath · 2018-03-18T06:17:30+00:00

It happens to a lot of us. When that state of mind comes just focus on something else, like: your to do list, books, exercise. The thing is to have activities and a purpose. When dating is not your "only" thing going on it makes it much easier to not fantasize.

Romantic Fantasizising = anxiety. When things don't go as we wanted. So I beleive is wise to avoid it.

Quasar_Cross · 2018-03-18T13:53:06+00:00

I think getting let down is partly what matures, tempers, and helps manage your expectations; not to the point of being cynical, but enough to "go with the flow" as you say.

lmaochilldude · 2018-03-18T04:57:26+00:00

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SJ_Shark_Byte · 2018-03-18T17:35:14+00:00

Last week there was a post that had an answer to this. And many other dilemmas with women. It’s simple: talk to more of them. All day every day (when you have the time).

A girl bails on you? Cool, you have 3 more you can hit up

Well that’s the idea anyway

lmaorelaxgirl · 2018-03-18T18:14:10+00:00

maria, is that you?

Title	How can I stop fantasizing about a relationship before it has even started?
Author	lmaochilldude
Upvotes	26
Comments	9
Date	March 18, 2018 4:12 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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