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Just sharing that you don’t necessarily need to follow pickup to a T and that sometimes you can figure things out on your own. My post probably won’t help detail-wise but it’s more of an inspiration post that I decided to finally write-up. Never imagined myself as I am now but I really am a different person. There’s not a lot I can say from my experiences that hasn’t been said before. The core formulas of pickup have all been discovered haha
/r/seduction27/07/19 10:09 AM
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Ah I didn’t go into depth in that stuff Learned it from my friends. So lucky me. They didn’t coach me or anything, I just noticed how talking and flirting worked. Basically getting girls is the same way you treat your friends but also kino plus a little teasing. Ask questions, look into her eyes, interject (infrequently interject but subtely remind her you’re there and listening) and smile. Oh and listen listen listen. Can’t respond to her stories or experiences if you don’t know what she said I…
/r/seduction26/07/19 07:12 PM
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I am actually not despite the name! But go Sharks nonetheless!
/r/seduction26/07/19 06:26 PM
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I’m in a similar situation, although I’m not worried of the outcome. I know I can game and pull new girls no problem but finding the next girl takes some effort and who knows when the next one to stick around will come along Because it’s pretty awesome right now having guaranteed sex like twice a week
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:27 PM
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As long as your life stays busy and interesting and the dates you go on are interesting and fun then she will always want you. Also texting is unnecessary but if you want to do you then go ahead I mean yeah I simplified it and anything can happen but it increases the chances of her staying hooked
/r/seduction04/09/18 04:50 AM
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Get to know her, ask her questions, share relative stories and interject, really gotta pay attention. It should be fun too, you have to relax and just enjoy her company, be in the moment. But also escalation. You have to go from friendly, light contact to more intimate stuff. It’s a date, you’re not going to make a new friend, you’re trying to bed her (somewhere down the line). Treat her like a good friend, but remember to show your full intentions. Maybe you don’t have sex by the end of the nig…
/r/seduction04/09/18 04:39 AM
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I used to be this person. I’d attract hot girls at first but then it wouldn’t take long for them to ghost me lol. Teasing must be sprinkled in, used conservatively. Too much and you’re just a douche
/r/seduction30/08/18 08:40 PM
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I have a snapchat that I hardly use. I also have Tinder and Bumble but I’ve barely fucked around on there in the past year, maybe have gotten 100 matches and 3 numbers...but again not really on it. I usually go out every other weekend, but lately it’s been every weekend. I’ve had at least a date or two every other month. I think I’ve finally found a quality girl, seems to really like me and we’re going on another date (fucked last week, gonna again tonight 😉). Keeps talking about a future betwee…
/r/seduction29/08/18 05:20 PM
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I went barhopping last Wednesday for my date. We alternated buying drinks for each other (ended up even, each had 4 drinks total in a span of 4 hours). We held hands or I put my arm around her back and walked through the city. After the second bar and walking to the next one, she was rambling about some story. I said “I don’t care” and initiated a kiss and makeout, neck kissing blahblahblah for 5 minutes against some random wall. Pretty much in the bag when we got to my car Seeing her again this…
/r/seduction28/08/18 02:22 AM
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You’ve got to learn to blend those radical personalities into one fluid personality that embodies pieces of each type. Like be a respectful nice man most of the time, but don’t be afraid to make douchey-quips now and again (in a joking manner of course). Be observant of your environment. Use metaphors to describe things. Share experiences. Listen attentively and affirm what the person tells you. Do these things with a girl. Make some light contact but also see how the girl receives these actions…
/r/seduction28/08/18 02:04 AM
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Talk to more and more people. Sounds like you haven’t a clue on social interaction and particular cues. You should treat EVERYONE as a person. Woman, man, child, senior, coworker...even the assholes with rainclouds over their heads...be the fun, caring guy who gives everyone respect. Do not treat women as meatbags that you fuck. Be friendly, get some cues and then get closer and closer. Look up the DiCarlo Escaltion Ladder It’s like a rollercoaster. Escalation is a very slow crawl uphill that st…
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:43 AM
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Typically I try not to send a girl more than 3-4 texts a day, if that. I also don’t respond right away (usually busy) unless it’s past 8pm. Some light banter or inside jokes here and there but I minimize it, use it to setup dates. And maybe this should go without saying but I will anyway. If you want her to text back the next day/respond quick you should be having great dates as well as fucking her good
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:28 AM
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I find that girls who don’t play games and shit test me are the highest quality girls because they don’t feel the need to qualify me. If they are trying to shit test you you probably aren’t coming off as honest and something is off about you
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:14 AM
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Girls who tell you they have a bf are high quality? What an autistic conclusion
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:08 AM
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Who gives a shit. The odds are heavily against you when she tells you that. So say something nice, be on your way and move on to the next one.
/r/seduction27/08/18 01:45 AM
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Honestly, get mental help. Your post history is pathetic. A magic genie isn’t going to fly through your window, snap his fingers and instantly make you a baller playboy... Work out. Get hobbies. Go for a walk. Just do things to get out of your own head, because you are spending wayyyy too much time inside it. The problem is you and your boring lifestyle. Create a lifestyle for yourself
/r/seduction18/08/18 08:23 PM
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You should be out there doin stuff that makes people smile. Do silly dance moves, high five random people and crack dumb jokes. Just have a good time, elevate those around you. Say hi to groups of people that seem interesting. Just...bust the usual mold
/r/seduction16/08/18 07:07 AM
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Nah that other fuckstain is way worse
/r/seduction15/08/18 09:31 AM
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Wait you pick up girls at a mimosa house on Sundays? I guess it’s doable if there is a bar or outside area. I’ll have to check it out because sometimes post-Saturday nights my crew and I (of guys and girls) hit up Sunday brunch for mimosas and shit. Never thought about pickin up there. Huh
/r/seduction15/08/18 09:27 AM
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What about my the one to talk?
/r/seduction08/08/18 09:22 PM
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I actually fucked up this exact situation when I was 17. IF ONLY YOUNGER ME WOULD HAVE KNOWN. Live and learn
/r/seduction04/08/18 08:10 AM
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Do it in the car you nerd
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:06 PM
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Hot girls are having sex. More news at 11. You need to be fucking multiple girls at a time too. Get over it, you’re not exclusive until she starts calling you her boyfriend and you also need to be comfortable that until then other guys are giving her dick
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:03 PM
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I see. Just dial back the heat and then up again over and over until she finally gives in
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:42 PM
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I’m in a similar situation, you’re a little ahead though. If I had the chance to cuddle and make out with the coworker I want to fuck (and she likes me too), then I’d have banged her already. But we’re always iniviting each other out but we always both have made prior plans lol. Just keep yourself busy and she will keep chasing, and when she invites you then you have to isolate and then start doing more than just kissing
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:34 PM
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It’s clearly early stage stuff bro, it’s not like you make big moves off the bat unless you’re dancing in the club
/r/seduction31/07/18 09:56 AM
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Star Wars is the shit, well, the new ones not so much, but everyone loves Star Wars. I’m a massive flirt with women but if they talked Star Wars with me I’d probably nut with my pants still on
/r/seduction18/07/18 06:04 AM
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Eat less carbs, more protein, eat under your maintenance for calories and do 20 minutes of suicides every other day (basically sprints, like find a basketball court or open soccer/football field). This is the fastest way. You could also take up swimming in replacement of sprints. Basically eat less and do cardio. You can eat at a small caloric deficit and do a light jog but the desired results will take longer to acquire
/r/seduction08/07/18 07:20 PM
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All you have to do is smile, put our your hand and ask “you wanna dance?” It’s non-threatening, polite/gentelmanly, and shows confidence. You’ll still probably get rejected over half the time, but who cares? If you wanna grind on hot chicks at the club it’s as easy as asking that simple question. Especially to the ones interested in you
/r/seduction08/07/18 09:22 AM
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Higher amount of legs than the average person!
/r/seduction03/07/18 06:09 PM
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At that point you usually let a homie run the MAC system, a.k.a. Move-in After Completion
/r/seduction03/07/18 06:38 AM
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Well first of all you are completely insecure. You keep comparing your lack of success to the success of those around you. How about you try shutting out all that noise and focus on your own successes? Like the fact you went out. A lot of guys decided to stay home, beat their meat and play games or watch Netflix instead of meeting people. So +1 You are opening on hot girls. Another +1. You have an interesting life. Another +1 Look at your positives while examining your flaws. Focus on YOUR PROGR…
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:48 PM
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He’s being stupid because they are rejecting the whole thing because of one sentence. What a stupid ultimatum
/r/seduction02/04/18 05:47 AM
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Did you even read my comment
/r/seduction02/04/18 12:53 AM
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Exactly there are some decent life lessons and interesting stories in there. Doesn’t mean you have to believe them to be truth and worship the texts, you can be non-religious while still admiring good literature
/r/seduction01/04/18 08:40 PM
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Groupspeak. I find it hard to find times to chime in or connect when it’s usually a 3-way conversation and I feel like one of the ones left out. My 1 on 1 game is fucking stellar though. If I can isolate a girl it’s usually game over. Wish it translated well to groups though
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:40 PM
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Any given club there are at least a few girls who will have a ONS that night. A vast majority of women will end the the night with their friends though. But everyone who is single at the club is looking for someone to fuck, it’s no secret
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:29 PM
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Just because an author decides to reference the bible doesn’t mean they’ll barrage you with religious shit I’m an atheist too but dude...don’t be stupid
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:23 PM
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I haven’t managed to get a ONS and honestly, don’t think I ever want to. Leaving a girl on a high note and then hanging out later in the week builds a deeper connection, which is hotter for me. Even if it’s a girl I don’t plan on keeping a long term thing with (either a FWB or potential girlfriend) I find the sexual tension is stronger. Especially since on that second meet we’re either sober or only on a slight buzz...so you know the passion is 100% there and mutual Idk didn’t mean to get too mu…
/r/seduction30/03/18 01:01 PM
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What do you even mean by game yourself If it’s to be a polarizing but awesome, unexpected, fun, give-no-shits dude then yeah pretty easy to get laid
/r/seduction30/03/18 12:55 PM
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Tell her that’s not how it works lol. Put it this way...what if she sucks at sex? Do you really want to be with a girl who lies there like a starfish?
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:13 PM
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The difference between being a “best friend” with a girl and fucking her is physical contact. If you’re not making moves with your hands then you will never be making moves with your penis
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:06 PM
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Luckily for you there’s thousands of other opportunities. Baby steps
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:03 PM
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I’m moving to the center of a city for the first time in my life this summer. So fucking pumped
/r/seduction29/03/18 09:36 AM
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I think the key is you’re not trying and just having fun with it. If that guy truly approached 100 girls he’d have at the least 1 number. Either still fat and hideous (if so keep gyming other guy!!) or just trying too hard
/r/seduction29/03/18 09:32 AM
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Right now only have time to go out Monday and Saturday nights, even then I only go out every other weekend (saving some money, moving into the city this summer). Mondays I usually hang out with friends, we usually go bowling or play poker or even play charades (actually fun and helps improv skills) So far for the ~6 Saturdays I have gone out I’ve madeout with about 5 girls, gotten 3 numbers, fucked one of them twice and have yet to see the third girl yet but I’m going to next week. Pretry succes…
/r/seduction29/03/18 09:00 AM
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Never call dates what they are. Call em what she can tell her friends as “hanging out” or “fun activities”. Either way a girl you’re just trying to get a FWB with you still have to “date.” But the difference is, everytime you hangout it escalates to sex
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:47 AM
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Similar situation here for me. Don’t see a girl until Monday because she’s “busy” Weird because she was telling me at the club that she goes out every weekend, hell she told me that she went out both Friday and Saturday. Not worried about it though. She can do what she wants. But I built great rapport, got multiple makeouts with her and did all sorts of sexy shit on the dancefloor. She’s been initiating text too. But if it doesn’t pan out I’m prepared to move on
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:27 PM
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What I recommend is not saying stuff like “we’re not having sex” Well, not outright. Maybe joke about how “I thought this was just a cuddle session” or whatever. IMO saying “we’re not having sex” is a sure way to not get sex.
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:21 PM
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Kind of like long stare through the girl’s eyes but with an ever so slight grin. Oh and slight squint too. But when I mean slight for both the grin and squint I mean really slight. It’s the most confident look you can have Just practice in the mirror
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:15 PM
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Well first I met her at a club then got her number and she (and her roomate) took me and my friends back home. Kissed her outside just because The first date just got a couple drinks at a bar, talked for about an hour, madeout at the bar, walked out to her car and then got her top and bra off plus she gave me a bj. We would have banged but she was on her period
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:10 PM
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Arms down by the sides just dangling as you rock your body. BORING. Put your hands in the air
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:07 PM
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When texting I only keep it to pointless smalltalk or flirting...if she initiates. I’ll setup the date sure but if she texts me some bullshit I might exchange a couple pointless stuff with her throughout the week. But yeah minimilize texting as much as possible. Texting a lot only works for like high schoolers and even then...not recommended
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:35 PM
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I don’t even say anything, I love just staring at them for half a minute with the “I want to fuck you” eyes. They melt everytime. Hell the girl at the club I was talking to last Saturday couldn’t last like 5 seconds without breaking and saying “Those EYES!” Proceeded with the easiest kiss ever
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:29 PM
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Like...movie theatre? So easy. On Monday I went and saw some random movie in one of those theatres with recliner chairs. 100% recommend. It was the second date and we spent about 15 minutes talking before the movie started. Then we were both making remarka through the previews and the movie. My hand was on her hand through the previews and then I straight up held it for like 20 minutes doing thumb massage stuff lol. Then about 30 minutes into the film I straight up threw my arm around her and sh…
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:19 PM
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If you feel you want to initiate the text to take her out you can send one, then maybe one more after a few days. If no response move on. Stings a little but a man carries on without it bothering him
/r/seduction28/03/18 06:43 AM
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Club game is so damn easy lol. Just dance and have fun, use your arms (put them in the damn air you loser. Stop with the floppy noodle shit). My go to move is to rub butt to butt on girls after I get a couple looks from them. Then I turn around, get her attention and put out my hand “wanna dance?” They’ll usually ask my name and then I theirs. After about 3 songs I say that I wanna take a break and go relax for a minute. End up talking anywhere between 15-30 minutes, getting closer to her physic…
/r/seduction28/03/18 06:41 AM
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Words are hard mkay
/r/seduction27/03/18 11:08 PM
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Nope as a somewhat decent lookin guy online dating is garbage. I mean, I can get dozens of matches but they mean shit. Hardly get any dates from online dating. But I’m 3/3 in the past ~45 days in seeing girls I met from the bar. One ended up ghosting after the first date. Whatever. Then actually, just banged the second girl again tonight and the third girl I’m seeing this week (made out and danced, she’s been initiating the texting). My advice? Go out as often as possible to get as much opportun…
/r/seduction27/03/18 05:49 AM
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Yeah like the others said, bang ASAP my dude. Girls might try to stop you with anti-slut defense and say they aren’t sure about this blahblahblah. You agree, slow it down a bit, then try again. If you’re good at foreplay you’ll easily smash down these anti-slut barriers and her giving in to wanting to bang right now...because the fact is she does
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:16 PM
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Flake rate is highest with girls online. Move on and find women in real life.
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:08 PM
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Flirting is evoking different emotions out of a person. So there’s always a mutual sexual aura when the two of you are close and talking, but it’s light touching, making each other laugh, getting to know one another and also maybe teasing. So four ideas. Compliments, teasing, joking, and some normal get-to-know-you-talk. Bounce between these four things and voila flirting. EZ
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:06 PM
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You can dance good and do sexy stuff on the dancefloor, but the bottom line we’re trying to tell the two of you is that you should be asking first.
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:01 PM
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I did it once before a few years ago and I cringe thinking about it. Definitely always ask every girl to dance before I start rubbing my dick on them lol
/r/seduction26/03/18 05:57 PM
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Think of the snowball effect. Starts small and light but ends up picking steam over time and becomes a big snowball and eventually it all avalanches down. Now apply that with touching. Keep it innocent and friendly at first but get closer and closer and then start kind of exploring. But don’t make any sudden jumps (don’t go straight for the tits or anything, go around them. Also please be or have already been making out before going for the tits)
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:44 AM
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Anyone who does sets next to you you should always say hello. Nothing too fancy, just smile and say hey or hi or do a head nod (if they have headphones in). You do that once every time you go to each of those people who do sets near you, then you can be the friendly guy at the gym. One day you’ll get into small talk with the people you’ve been saying hi to, forming good bonds. Then eventually you’ll have deeper conversations and maybe even the chance to invite the person (guy or girl who cares? …
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:33 AM
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What you are texting isn’t the problem (I’m not a fan of the things you are sending but it shouldn’t matter that much). You’re not building enough rapport or they are not that into you. Each interaction should be fun and interesting but left on some sort of high note. If not that good of an interaction, well your chances aren’t gonna be so hot
/r/seduction26/03/18 10:24 AM
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Calling is better but for a lot of younger girls (like 23 and under) who you barely know they probably won’t pick up. So it’s a hail mary move IMO but it does work better, allows you to set up the date quick as well as shows you are not afraid to converse whenever. However for younger women texting works, just keep it short and to the point. Some girls are text happy though and if they ever ask why you don’t text back often just tell em you’re a busy man
/r/seduction26/03/18 10:19 AM
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Not the right sub but....if she’s not happy then break it off. It will hurt for a while I’m sure but no reason anyone should do that to themselves. Trust me not only will it be good for her, you will benefit as well by not being in a broken relationship. Why be with a person who doesn’t want to be with you?
/r/seduction26/03/18 04:42 AM
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A lot of my first kisses with girls are after we have had a good 30min to hour talk. There’s a point where I just kind of naturally start talking slower and slowly draw out what I have to say. Then there’s a point where I don’t say anything and just stare intently at her eyes Last night the girl I did this to she blushed, laughed and went “those eyes!!” leaned closer to me and then I just went in for the kill, easy as hell. These first kisses are always passionate to, it’s awesome If that doesn’…
/r/seduction26/03/18 04:34 AM
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Those guys are stupid lol. A general rule to follow is to not bring up past stuff with other girls, which is a rule these guys are either neglecting or are ignorant to
/r/seduction26/03/18 01:43 AM
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You kept it easygoing and respectful which is the right thing to do. Also telling her you won’t have sex was good too. HOWEVER you have to keep trying to push the next level. If you got to drag out the teasing to do so then do it. But you got friendzoned because she DID want next level stuff but she just has a really high “slutguard” or whatever. You gotta push her until you get a hard NO. Which sucks to hear but at least it makes it clear you can move on without waiting on getting a “let’s stay…
/r/seduction25/03/18 09:54 PM
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I have somewhat thinner hair from years of pulling it out if gets long enough (trichotillomania). I keep my hair short. I wear a hat a lot but I take the hat off when sitting or just whenever I feel like Don’t make it a thing that you do 24/7 Here’s the truth, you can’t hide it forever. So don’t try to. Willingly take off and show you are okay with who you are
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:30 AM
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Last week a girl told me she was on her period. Still got her shirt and bra off, got her wet through making out and nipple play, and she gave me bj. Go as far as you can man and pleasure her as much as you can. Your prosthetic legs should not be a dealbreaker if you emotionally interest her and put HER pleasure first. If you treat the prosthetic legs like it’s normal (which you should, no one should judge you differently for missing a limb or two) she will too. It’s only weird if you make it wei…
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:25 AM
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The best way to not hesitate is to prevent it from happening in the first place. Sounds like I’m simplifying, which sure I am. But you have to do is clear your mind and pull the trigger. Also remember it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it and how you present yourself.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:18 AM
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Pretty sure a vast majority will tell you not to. Which is great advice. But if you can catch her at a good time ans not be a bother then maybe. But I’d agree with everyone else. Don’t do it. There’s hundreds of other places to meet women
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:12 AM
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then Idk how to help you if you’re uncomfortable talking to girls around your friends lol. You just gotta treat her like another buddy, but like one you can touch more without it being weird
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:32 PM
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I mean that’s why you invite her out...to get to know her. I know you’d love one on one time but just tell your friends that it’s “Sarah from class” or whatever her name is. You’d still be able to go 1 on 1 with her even when you’re with friends and it’s a more fun, relaxed environment
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:14 PM
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You’re 18 dude. 18. Don’t worry about outcomes. Be the unmoving rock in the wind. Do NOT let shit phase you. Just have fun and have a smile on your face It’s going to be rough at first but you can set yourself up to be a fucking machine by the time you’re 20. Hit (or keep hitting) the gym, dress nice, present yourself nice and make as many friends as you can. The girls will follow
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:05 PM
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I suggest not asking her for a coffee, you seem unsure about the situation so I have a feeling she isn’t all over you yet Go bowling or something with your friends and then invite her along. Even if she doesn’t go you kept it casual and invited her to something fun. And don’t sweat it if she doesn’t go, just another thing you can talk about after break. As long as you keep it light but flirty and keep inviting her out to fun stuff she’ll cave before long and come out with ya
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:56 PM
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You can dance without grinding you know. I dance without it and then do some very simple dance moves with girls I start dancing with (hand on her hip, holding her hand, making her spin, yes sometimes even to the hip/hop andd club music). Usually then leads to grinding anyways Or yeah talk to her
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:11 PM
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Ramp up the silliness and say she’s your wife and that next week is your 10 year anniversary. Just be cool and fun about it
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:08 PM
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Could do without the lol and haha. I use them too but for those particular messages it really wasn’t needed
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:30 AM
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It’s true you shouldn’t. You hardly make any progress using dating apps
/r/seduction21/03/18 07:01 AM
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Are those little annotations your stream of consciousness? Because if so you have it all wrong. Also you are texting too much. Congrats on ensuring a flake you dumbfuck
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:57 AM
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Tell me what is there to lose when you flirt with a girl who is being nice to you. Especially if you won’t see her again.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:46 PM
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Tinder is supplemental. You should already be having real life interactions. If you expect anything off Tinder well you’re fucking naive and honestly desperate. Say maybe you get 10 matches in a week on say 200 swipes. 5% match rate. Well imagine if you approached 200 girls. Instead of basing off of just looks they’d get a whiff of your personality, wit, compassion, tonality, posture...you name it. In real life, at worst you’d get a 10% “match” rate where the girl would like you (maybe doesn’t l…
/r/seduction20/03/18 01:15 PM
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So first of all try not to ask about past relationships. Ever. Just fucking don’t. Second of all a girl being into you is like easy mode. You have more room to make mistakes. BUT thing is you shouldn’t worry about making the wrong move or saying the wrong thing. That’s the worst mindset to have. The solution is to be not only positive but assume the girls are into you. Because chances are they are. “Assume attraction” is thrown around a lot here because well if you don’t then not only will you p…
/r/seduction20/03/18 01:03 PM
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Making out is not hooking up lol. Kissing is fun and sexy and all but usually means nothing if it doesn’t lead to your cock being inside her one way or another
/r/seduction20/03/18 09:32 AM
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Difference between a man who gets girls and one who bums out at home wondering why they never get girls. There’s always another opportunity
/r/seduction20/03/18 06:41 AM
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It kinda is that easy it’s just if you don’t have a lot of experience the first couple times this seems daunting. Here I’ll spell a damn surefire way you can succeed. As long as you keep a level head though! Go hang out with her and your group of friends like normal. At some point isolate her, like if y’all are in a booth chilling, take her up to the bar or lounge or outside away from your friends. At this point you should already be touchy-touchy a bit and then sit close at the bar. Then when y…
/r/seduction20/03/18 02:15 AM
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I’m only 22 and have only gotten pretty successful in the past 15-18 months I’d say. I’d say just stop giving a damn. It’s hard, but it helps if you just start talking to lots of women and giving yourself options. You’re afraid to get rejected or lose the girl so you’re cautious. This is a recipe to be lonely most of your life. You don’t want that I don’t want you to have that either! Be polarizing. Don’t be a straight up douche but do stuff for your amusement, and if you want to lightly touch a…
/r/seduction20/03/18 02:05 AM
1

Sit close, be somewhat touchy, strong eye contact (fucking key right here), don’t talk too fast, be fun and smiley, don’t be afraid to make a few sexual jokes. Make sure you get closer and closer to her through the night. Face your body towards her and be open. When it’s really intense talk slightly quieter and slower and after a few minutes you can easily land a kiss. From there hang out a few minutes more and ask if you wanna get outta here Then you can make out or by the car and take her home…
/r/seduction20/03/18 01:47 AM
3

I like to go up and say “Hey! So what’s the occasion?” or “What brings you out tonight?” and go from there
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:05 PM
1

When close and when there’s like a solid 10 seconds of silence say “hey, look at me” or “wait.” When she turns to you lightly put your hand on her face and go in If she turns away play it cool and try again in a bit. If she rejects again for a second time rinse and repeat one more time. But me? I’d throw in the towel and move on if she rejects twice. I have a two strike rule for flakes and kisses. Not gonna waste time on someone who doesn’t want me I think you’ll do fine. But look at it this way…
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:01 PM
1

Look man so far so good. But if she lets you rub her thigh and is comfortable with it and wants to see you again? Kiss the damn girl already
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:45 PM
4

Actions speak louder than words You went into that thinking the other way around, which hardly ever works
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:25 PM
1

Tinder can and does work problem is most guys it rarely does/doesn’t at all. Use it to fuck around but expect nothing. Them approach in real life
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:04 PM
26

It actually gets to a point where it isn’t practice for you and it’s just having fun. Once you begin enjoying interactions your mindset shifts to that Casanova “just fucking around” mindset. And once you’re there well you’re pretty unstoppable
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:53 PM
1

Well you got the foresight and you seem to know what you’re doin so go get it my dude
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:40 PM
1

Could have got it on in the car (if you or she has one) or something but what’s done is done In any event yeah choose a place to hang out near your place if you can.
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:53 PM
1

You’re looking at rejection in the wrong light. It’s not supposed to be “painful”. It’s screening out girls who are not interested in you, because those ones waste your time.
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:51 PM
3

Gotta go with your gut. Spend less time in your head and just go for things. Do you wanna be fucking the hot girl or do you want someone else to? Because there’s always someone else in line
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:46 PM
1

K-close isn’t a thing lol. I mean, I find kissing as hot as anyone but dude nothing is closed until your dick is in her body some way or another
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:43 PM
1

Last week there was a post that had an answer to this. And many other dilemmas with women. It’s simple: talk to more of them. All day every day (when you have the time). A girl bails on you? Cool, you have 3 more you can hit up Well that’s the idea anyway
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:35 PM
2

If you can do all that then all you have to do is slow things down and then go in for the kiss. Then once you’ve isolated and made out a bit you can start making bolder moves much more quickly and that leads to taking off clothes.
/r/seduction17/03/18 09:14 PM
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Did you make her cum? Because you probably have no clue on what is good or bad sex if it was your first time. You probably sucked at it It’s either that or she was horny and just wanted some dick and you were the lucky cock for her to ride. If so then congrats for that You also seem pretty needy to want to be in a relationship with a girl you fucked once
/r/seduction17/03/18 07:06 PM
2

Dude first date no kiss for a newbie I can understand. But man, somewhere in the middle of the second date it has to be done by now. Just slow it down man. Focus just on your breath for a few seconds if you find your mind racing. Whenever you wanna go for the kiss when close to her you just have to give her the “I wanna kiss you” look and say “Hey” or “Wait” It’s that easy. Don’t wait for the “right moment” or for her to make the first move. She won’t do it
/r/seduction17/03/18 07:02 PM
1

Touching, but it’s a snowball effect. Gotta start very small. Light arm touches, knee on knee or general slight leg on leg contact (when sitting next to each other) but getting closer and closer over the date. Make an excuse to grab their hand (maybe they have bracelets or rings or a necklace) or shirt or jeans (not in sensitive places, not yet). Then hand on her thigh as you get deeper into the conversation, slowing your voice, all of this stuff of course with a lot of intense eye contact. And …
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:53 PM
48

Just another experience you can tell other people about lol. Nothing you did wrong as far as I can tell. Don’t sweat it
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:38 PM
2

Have you isolated her? Have been touching her all over? Did you try lifting her shirt or putting your hand on her pussy? You gotta make the next move up man. Gotta get to a point where clothes start peelin off
/r/seduction16/03/18 10:06 PM
1

I don’t buy girls drinks when I’m out clubbin or hopping between bars meeting girls. Never. But on planned dates with girls I already know? I buy the first one (sometimes a second but never ever more than that). Because I WANT TO not because I have to If you feel as if you are buying drinks to win her over then you’re not comfortable with who you are. The drink is a nice thing to give, nothing more. It ain’t gonna do the trick to get you in her pants, your game has to do that
/r/seduction16/03/18 10:03 PM
3

Just last night I almost banged a girl in her car. Only thing that stopped me was her being on her period. Still made out with her, got her shirt and bra off, got her giving me a bj and got her moaning (and she came too) just through foreplay. All in a car. And I didn’t even take off her pants. It’s amazing what you can do through touching and kissing
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:53 PM
2

lol you can have her. Sometimes I match with a girl I’m not full-on attracted to, which is one of those I sent that message to. Not gonna waste meme messages on girls I’d actually fuck haha
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:25 AM
2

Just sent “I wanna slam my phat cock into your cunty cum dumpster” to a match on Tinder the promptly blamed it on autocorrect. Let’s see how it goes
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:50 AM
1

Never buy a girl a drink unless YOU do so on your own accord. If they ask you, yes, you’re getting used so no, you shouldn’t buy them a drink.
/r/seduction13/03/18 10:57 AM
2

There are a finite amount of girls actually. Let it simmer for 2-3 weeks, hundreds of new girls will pop up (thousands if in a big city)
/r/seduction13/03/18 12:31 AM
3

If you’re feeling like the amount of success you’re having dictates your emotions, then you’re probably putting them on a pedestal. Talk to more girls, get rejected more. You have to stop caring, desensitize yourself to it, and just play the numbers game. It’s intimidating and frustrating at first but if it was super easy you wouldn’t be asking in the first place. It’s tough but we all go through it. You’re success rate might be low at first but over time you increase your chances through self-i…
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:27 PM
1

Eh it’s not all that much of a myth. Although 99.99% of women are not completely unique, there does come that “special one” where it works out for you long term. I mean, that’s even why pickup artists eventually get married.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:35 AM
1

Right but you need to continuously put yourself out there, you can’t just get one girl’s attention and stop there. That’s how the neediness persists. Yes it’s tempting to invest all of your attention to the first warm body that becomes interested but as soon as you start talking to 3 or so girls at a time you begin to lose the scarcity mindset
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:37 AM
2

Make an assumption or two about her, take it from small talk to more of a fun little guessing game about her. It’s morr interesting than interview-style
/r/seduction08/03/18 07:52 AM
1

My grandma and aunts used to say that to me, and I guess still do to a lesser extent (because I’m currently seeing all sorts of different women), but it’s because they want you to have a girlfriend and then they hope that girlfriend turns into your wife. And what they really want is you to have kids. Your mom and aunt want to hold a baby again because at their age they probably won’t have another of their own. Luckily my family never pressured me too hard about it. But I feel ya it does get anno…
/r/seduction07/03/18 07:18 PM
1

DiCarlo escalation ladder. Google it and read it. You’ll also read it imagining it’s you doing it to that girl (and you’ll have a boner reading through it imagining it’s you. Seriously, it’s hot stuff lol). Then just apply what you read to real life. Works like a charm
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:47 AM
11

Am I missing something here what’s wrong with giving an honest opinion of what you think a girl is rated
/r/seduction06/03/18 09:50 PM
1

Well yeah I’m not saying you have to be satisfied with a 33% success rate, but I am saying it’s no big deal if your success rate is that low. Just keep putting yourself out there regardless of your %
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:22 PM
1

Never send a text complaining about her not responding. It always comes off as needy and desperate. You fucked up
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:18 PM
2

Yep everything you explained is thr poisonous mindset I had years ago. You have to learn to let go of your, furstration, anger and hate (I just realized fuckin Yoda said it best). The more you take action the easier it is to let go of things (i.e. uninterested girls). Wallowing in self-pity accomplishes nothing but backtracking.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:16 PM
1

If you’re not gonna use it then it looks douchey. Maybe if you plan on softly playing the guitar outside at one of those small metal tables then ya go for it.
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:10 PM
12

I get rejected on the dancefloor more than anywhere else but it’s the mildest form of rejection, if you’re decent looking it shouldn’t take more than 5 different girls to get at least one dance. Dancefloor rejection actually doesn’t hurt at all. What hurts the most is when a girl ghosts you lol. But all rejection is just whatever, ghosting sucks but hey there’s always another girl out there anyways
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:06 PM
1

It is a numbers game. Much like baseball. You can practice and practice all you want but it is impossible to bat 1.000. Arguably the best hitter of all time, Tony Gwynn, Sr., had a career batting average of .338. So one of the best hitters of all time reached base just over 1/3 of the time when swinging the bat. Most players hit around the .100s-.200s, if that. Even the hottest guys don’t get on base all the time. That’s just the way it is, for whatever reason it may be, usually out of the guy’s…
/r/seduction03/03/18 06:32 AM
13

But if you’re taking the phrase “Just be yourself” to mean that you shouldn’t strive to grow, to learn or to improve yourself, you’re making a big mistake. Who is the retarded fuck who says this? No one says this garbage. Of course you should always be improving yourself. Another useless article that regurgitates the same basic stuff we’ve heard before
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:44 PM
1

I’ve had good success saying they have the best smile I’ve seen on Tinder but dude that’s way, way better
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:19 AM
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Yeah I’m jokin lol but yeah I think the real overlying point is just be confident and show your intentions. Basically don’t be a lame chump tucking your drink to your chest, be fun, polarizing and stop giving a fuck. I like your style dude
/r/seduction27/02/18 05:38 AM
9

She’s crafty, she gets around
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:27 PM
0

Well you clearly don’t want to hear it but dude sometimes you have to put in the extra effort. I totally feel what you’re getting at but truth is the friends are there to prevent their girl from being either too slutty or getting taken advantage of when she might be too drunk. Or whatever dumb reason. Sometimes the best you can do is try to make peace with her friend group and show that you’re not a total neanderthal fiending for a quick nut, even then you still might get cockblocked. Just the w…
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:45 AM
2

Have you tried going outside? No seriously like do you go to places of interest where people share your passion, be it a concert or sport or boardgames or hiking...any of that? If the answer is no then try that for a couple months then report back. If there’s a group of people who share your interest you guys should have no problem connecting off the bat. edit: also your post reads like /r/niceguys material. I’m glad you think highly of yourself but you also think you’re so good that friends and…
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:31 AM
0

You learn after a couple times, no? They’re just protective, the don’t want their friend getting taken advantage of. Get on the good side of the girl’s group of friends then you’ll practically be able to do whatever you want to her lol
/r/seduction26/02/18 05:34 AM
1

How bad are your teeth man? As long as you keep your mouth hygiene in check it shoudn’t matter much. Some crooked teeth won’t turn girls away, but if they are all sorts of fucked up yeah go see an orthodontist.
/r/seduction26/02/18 04:50 AM
1

Looks matter but the fun guy making people laugh and smiling having a good time and giving off positive energy will always be near the top of the attraction chain. It’s hard to convey that extra attraction through a handful of pictures and text. In person there’s a lot more variables you can use to your advantage.
/r/seduction26/02/18 04:42 AM
12

Again, you just can’t tell in that situation. Maybe she just really needs a bath. But keep looking for reads
/r/seduction25/02/18 11:59 PM
9

That’d be tough...some people are not worth saving, unless it’s a friend or family. OP has already made it clear it’s some random chick so let’s just hope that one day this poor girl figures her shit out on her own
/r/seduction24/02/18 08:52 PM
2

Yeah it’s a bit of a scare to get a serious “no” or a “stop.” And that’s when you gotta stop of course. But if she laughs/giggles and stops you but goes in for more kissing, you got to assume she still wants it. So slow down then try again
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:16 AM
2

Did you try a second time? It seems like a fine line to walk but look if you’re already intimate and making out...you gotta show some persistence until she says “no” Respect is a good thing but like the other guy said, last minute resistence, kind of an anti-slut defense thing
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:07 AM
1

Say hello, say you you’ve seen them around, ask them their study, see if maybe they’re in some club, group, frat, sorority, sport. And keep it brief though for real. Gotta keep some mystery for the guys and girls. You make that good quick first impression and leave them on a high. UNLESS you connect deep with someone, guy or girl. For me, if there’s a dude (or better yet, a girl, though rarer for girls to like hockey where I live) who wants to talk hockey with me, I’ll dive into that topic for 1…
/r/seduction23/02/18 07:22 AM
2

Approach anyone and everyone, problem solved. Just because it isn’t obvious doesn’t mean you can’t create your own opportunities. Try making impromptu friends in the bar, like a quick chat for 3-5 minutes and then move to the next group. The more positivity you radiate in the bar the more you’ll get noticed and the more the opportunities present themselves.
/r/seduction23/02/18 06:49 AM
1

If you get 100 numbers from 100 girls that’d be awesome, but if it was that easy you wouldn’t be complaining about it right now, would you?
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:47 PM
12

It’s some random babe not your wife, dude. If anything beer...or whiskey and coke. No need to spend a fortune on a girl you may or may not see again
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:43 PM
9

If you’re going to see her tomorrow then don’t jerk it today or tomorrow. You wanna be Stiffy Steve not Larry Limpdick
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:38 PM
3

Not even worth monetizing, all that there is on game has been recorded and written. Unless another new technology comes around (like text and Tinder), there’s nothing more to say
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:35 PM
1

Hmm no 20s so it could very well not be their final SO. They’ve both been in their respective relationships for 5+ years. And when I talk to them and their girlfriends all seems well for them. I doubt they won’t marry their girlfriends but I have seen relationships fall apart lots of time so I’m not counting it out.
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:32 PM
1

Not worth it unless she’s DTF. Furthest I’ll go is 40 miles but even then that’s kind of a timesink. Maybe if she meets halfway but ya know still, not a lot of options
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:28 PM
1

Both my brothers have found their SOs in high school though...lol but it’s true most people do not. Even though my brothers both found their girl in high school, me and 99% of the other kids in my class as well as my other’s classes did not find their SO in high school. Complete horseshit
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:21 PM
5

I’ve got two dates lined up through Bumble/Tinder for sometime this or next week. And another two girls who told me they’re busy and would hit me up at the end of the month/beginning of March (expecting nothing from these two, but I’ll reignite come that time and see what might happen). I assume you have the basic foundation for a good profile down, but make sure your passion or favorite thing is in your bio. It’s key. Both the girls that I have setup dates with brought up hockey (my favorite th…
/r/seduction22/02/18 09:18 AM
1

What’s your advice to get them to pick up the phone? Girls my age aren’t picking up the phone for me, but they still go on the date and text me. I’ve called but they usually never answer, but they’ll set it up over text. I would love to get stuff setup in 1 minute like you said but girls never usually pickup. Do you tell or text them that you’ll call later, and maybe have them expect it? Should I explicitly tell them I’ll call instead of simply saying “I’ll hit you up” like I usually do?
/r/seduction21/02/18 08:03 AM
2

So get ripped
/r/seduction20/02/18 10:49 AM
3

Funny, not the same exact situation but I see old high school classmates that brushed me off back in school are eager to smile and give hugs/shake hands and talk. Idk if it’s a maturity thing or they see me smiling and having fun with a new group of friends, but it’s an awesome feeling and pretty wholesome. Not many girls from I’d want to bang from high school anyways, as attractive as they are. I guess I just want to meet new people outside my social circle. But best of luck to you OP, just don…
/r/seduction20/02/18 09:33 AM
3

What’s complaining here gonna accomplish dude? A vast majority of the time you’re not going to pull a girl home, accept it. Go out to have fun not to get girls, they can smell your desperation 5 miles away
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:56 PM
3

You think a girl is gonna feel sorry for you when you’re down on yourself like this? Create value in your own pursuits and then share that value with others when you have free time. What’s your passion, what’s your hobby, what stories do you have to tell? And rejection is good. No one is gonna make fun of you for politely putting yourself out there, and if they do, ignore them. Getting rejected means that, for whatever reason, the two of you wouldn’t have worked out together. You don’t want a on…
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:48 PM
2

I think most don’t care much at all
/r/seduction18/02/18 12:50 AM
2

Ice skating is probably like, date #5 tbh. Too romantic IMO. It’s a fucking awesome date to do but seems really personal for a first date. I’d say bowling or pickup basketball or walking through the mall, shop to shop would be better. Something still fun but low pressure
/r/seduction17/02/18 12:49 AM
8

Damn that’s pretty lucky of you, should have honestly had a quick chat and get the number yourself if she gives you “that stare.” Nonetheless you have her chasing you and if anything it has built more attraction so congrats
/r/seduction16/02/18 06:28 AM
3

Learned from one of my best friends who has wingmanned for me multiple times. Just by watching him from 5 feet away on the dancefloor how it’s done...it’s simple: Just groove and dance, smile have a good time, then you see a girl movin on the floor that you like, give her a smile, dance over to her, put your hand out and ask “wanna dance?” It’s seriously that easy. I watched him get rejected dozens of times but he also finds lots of success. And he doesn’t care about the outcome, which is key. S…
/r/seduction15/02/18 08:13 PM
7

Do you have a best friend? Treat her like you treat your best friend, except you know, it’s a girl that you’re attracted to. She shits out her ass too, ya know So to flirt you basically gotta create opportunities to touch her. Smile, laugh, tease, joke, compliment. When you want to put emphasis on a certain word when it’s your turn to talk or out comes a laugh, lightly touch her. Use the kino escalation ladder, start by keeping it safe, friendly and light at first but slowly crank up the heat, b…
/r/seduction14/02/18 10:41 PM
3

I’m willing to bet a majority of guys have like a 1% date rate with tinder/bumble/etc, success even lower than that. What you need to do is go to the bar, club, meetups, wherever; talk to people, dance, stop giving a fuck. Go out to have fun and to learn things about strangers. Stop your inner monologue of “oh shit oh shit I need to be fucking girls or I’m a loser”. If you’re a fun and smiley guy with a good group of friends, the girls will follow. You sound like a loser despite having things wo…
/r/seduction14/02/18 01:27 AM
3

Don’t forget the katana and trench coat, panties will be hitting the floor
/r/seduction14/02/18 01:19 AM
6

In bars? All the time. But you’re usually never worried about those guys who do so you don’t notice it. Daygame it is definitely rare, though if you see a confident guy go up and chat a pretty girl it’s actually inspirational. Most likely spots that this happens is at coffee shops, libraries, transit, inner cities, diner-like restaurants, convention centers, parks. Go to these places and you might notice some guys there who do it...and guess what? It could be you too
/r/seduction13/02/18 10:04 AM
1

When people ask you to do another shot/have another drink don’t give in to peer pressure. Go at your own rate. Most people are chill with it. When I go out my friends always try to get me to down like 5 shots in the hour before heading out. Fuckin animals lol. I’ll do 2-3 right before we bounce but I’m not trying to get plastered every fuckin weekend. Just say no if you have to
/r/seduction13/02/18 09:57 AM
1

Not fapping is good advice but anything just tone it down from like everyday or whatever to like 1-2 times a week max. It does help but for me if I go too long my fuckin balls will hurt
/r/seduction12/02/18 12:21 AM
1

If you’ve been rejected less than 5 times in your life it’s gonna be hard on you, sure. If you expose yourself to rejection more and stop worrying about the outcome it literally begins to not bother you
/r/seduction11/02/18 11:59 PM
5

Everyone loves the chase
/r/seduction11/02/18 11:18 AM
3

Weird, most shy dudes I know turn into absolute flirt fiends when they drink. You must be doin something wrong
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:50 AM
4

Don’t be a pussy, either ask to go with (if you’re a fun dude, which based on your attitude I highly doubt) or let her do her own thing. Either way being a possessive fucktard is how you get cheated on and dumped
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:32 AM
14

No one gives a shit about V-Day. I mean sure, some do, it’s a holiday for couples, but if you don’t have a girlfriend it’s just another day on the calendar. Who fucking cares
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:59 AM
1

Think about it, if a girl came up to you and complimented you, you’d feel great yeah? Keep handing out positive comments. Most people LOVE compliments no matter who they come from. Makes them feel good and have purpose. That girl is one of those 1 in 10 reactions that do not go in your favor. Easy to screen out those bitches anyways
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:55 PM
1

Some people can make this work but just go meet women closer to you man. Your perfect girl (no such thing actually, but the idea of it) may be somewhere on Earth but there are probably hundreds in your more realistic vicinity (50km or less) just like her waiting for a guy like you.
/r/seduction07/02/18 02:37 AM
1

Play to your strengths man, if you suck at texting don’t force yourself to do it. Some guys have good text game and it works for them. But it’s not a necessity. Set up a date, tell her you’re a busy guy and then use text as little as possible.
/r/seduction07/02/18 02:32 AM
1

Us younger guys are in more of an uphill battle than 26-40 year olds. I have fun but I’m nowhere near the most successful pickup guy, at all. I just do what I find is fun, talk to who I want, but I don’t sleep around a lot. I bet I could if I went out every night approaching I’d get laid more often. But I only go out on weekends, but it’s fine by me. Thing is, there’s a dude I know who’s almost 30, does the same routine (work in the week, party on the weekend). He’s fucking hot young girls twice…
/r/seduction07/02/18 02:26 AM
2

If she’s your classmate definitely try to do a short coffee thing and then ask to hang out (casual way to ask on a date) if you enjoyed her company at the coffee place. Basically try to build a tiny bit of attraction when getting coffee, see if you like her, keep it low pressure and relaxed but of course flirt, smile, light touching, get to know her. Then schedule something as soon as possible and then if she likes you she’ll see you again and then you can make bolder moves. Voila
/r/seduction07/02/18 02:17 AM
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Talk to more girls, get rejected more, exercise, do your hobby, get ahead in schoolwork/normal work, hit up a bar, watch whatever sports game is on, watch TV, play a video game, read, write, draw, cook... fucking literally anything other than just staring at your phone or the wall thinking about “what if” and shit. Because if you’re hung up on a girl and can’t get her out of your head quick enough than it means you’re boring yourself to the point that you’re only thinking about the girl and if y…
/r/seduction06/02/18 03:21 AM
8

If girls who you are interested in show interest in you straight up tell them you’re a virgin. Not like upfront but if the convo starts leaning that way, you’ll have nothing to lose. They’ll think you’re being a coy bullshitter or they’ll lick their chops at the opportunity to take a guy’s virginity. Either way it’s a win-win for you. Being timid and reserved about it is unattractive, be straight with her, be vulnerable. TL;DR Virginity means nothing
/r/seduction05/02/18 08:18 AM
1

Definitely. I’ve been there man, where there’s a girl I like and I’d be all anxious twiddling my thumbs wondering if/what she will send me. It just ain’t healthy. It’s all about you, do your own thing and have fun, the girls come second.
/r/seduction04/02/18 08:49 PM
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Stop caring about the outcome, it can send you into a bad spiral, especially if things don’t pan out with the girl. Also don’t hover over your phone. What I mean is stop obsessing over if she’ll text you back or what her next message might be. Keep yourself occupied too. While you’re not working or doing schoolwork go for a run, to the gym, do your hobby, watch TV/movie/play Xbox, go to a bar talk to other people. Idk literally anything to get your mind off these girls, that way if you get a res…
/r/seduction04/02/18 08:44 PM
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Text her when you want dude, and only send messages to her if she’s messaged back
/r/seduction04/02/18 06:36 PM
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Just say “let me know” or “hit me up when you find the time” and then don’t stress over if she responds or not. If she does it’s on if not forget about it. Either way don’t go all in on one girl. The only time you should be ideally seeing one girl is if that one girl is exclusive to you aka your girlfriend
/r/seduction30/01/18 09:12 PM
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Fuck what I wouldn’t give to close to the beach again, especially now that I’m in better shape. Keep saying stupid shit to girls man, it’s honestly the best for daygaming and also filtering out all the boring chicks
/r/seduction30/01/18 08:42 PM
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If anything you do the dinner after the movie to have a little something to talk about. But still movie date is definitely not recommended on the first 2-3 dates, or more specifically, not until after you’ve banged
/r/seduction30/01/18 08:38 PM
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You don’t really have to know how to dance at all. Guys never really have to move well in a dance environment, girls do because it’s how they show value. However if you do have good moves I’m pretty sure that makes you like 10x more attractive. But just watch other people because that’s what I did when I first started. Like groove your body. But the biggest tip is to get your arms moving and up near your chest or even at/above your head sometimes. Otherwise you’ll look like a bouncing zombie if …
/r/seduction30/01/18 08:16 PM
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Happened with the last girl I was seeing actually. Met her last Saturday and she was all over me. She’s like a HB9 Great date bowling then on Thursday and still all over me. Then we went out to get late night breakfast with her and her (mostly guy) friends, and I was enjoying my time with her friends than she. It was like constant immature jokes but all having hysterical laughter but she and her girl friend weren’t having it. The goodbye kiss was awkward because I could tell she wasn’t into it. …
/r/seduction29/01/18 05:44 AM
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Well you only find out if she does if you talk to her so what’s to lose?
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:26 PM
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I think it’s all how you say it and if it’s relevant. Also like I said before, as long as it’s a rare thing to put yourself wayyy down in trash tier, you can pull it off
/r/seduction26/01/18 09:54 PM
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Eh I’m not getting a suicidal vibe from that. Maybe if you keep making yourself out to be the lowest of the low all the time. But that particular example OP had could work, if relevant.
/r/seduction26/01/18 09:18 PM
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So it’s been thrown around before but look at it this way. She likes you enough to go on the date. So it’s pretty clear that it’s not “I wonder if she’ll like me” rather than “I wonder what she’s like?” Make it about her, try to find out about her, amuse yourself and maybe tease her a bit to see if she’s a fun person. And don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself a little every now and then. Just be comfortable with who you are.
/r/seduction26/01/18 09:14 PM
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Everyone’s got a different set of morals. Not that I agree with the other guy’s way about doing things, but as long as it’s not illegal he can do what he wants.
/r/seduction24/01/18 07:14 PM
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Eh if she’s clearly interested just don’t over do it. But a few messages a day is completely fine. This sub is always strictly like “ONLY USE TEXTING FOR SETTING UP THE DATE” which nah, you can text her and be silly. But definitely don’t use texting to get to know her on a deeper level. Save the juicy, personal questions (questions about her dreams, her interests, hobbies, goals, kinks) for in-person. Those Q’s just doesn’t translate anywhere near as well as opposed to you giving her face-to-fac…
/r/seduction24/01/18 07:08 PM
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Also you can learn more in a Q&A environment, I’m sick of the shitty YouTube videos. Rarely do they bring up new or interesting points. It’s always the same regurgitated ideas said in a different fashion. There needs to be more field reports and experiences given as examples to answer questions.
/r/seduction24/01/18 06:34 PM
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if she’s presumptuous and expects 3 or more free drinks she’s not worth your fucking time lmao. How shallow do you have to be to still go after a girl who is blatantly going to abuse your wallet?
/r/seduction24/01/18 12:38 AM
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Find an interest even if you don’t partake. I fucking love hockey but I don’t even play it. Of course I want to but it’s expensive for a young guy like me. But it’s still something I’m passionate about and I even tell girls that I plan on playing it in the future (which is true, I badly want to play it and it’s one of my goals this year to start playing hockey). Once you find something that will light up your face and make you wanna talk for hours, then boom you found your passion and are theref…
/r/seduction24/01/18 12:26 AM
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I’m seeing a girl for the second time on Thursday (met her this past Saturday). We have good chemistry so I could totally see us still dating 3 weeks from now (I won’t be too bummed if it doesn’t work out). I already have the idea of saying “fuck that” to the typical romanticized Valentine’s Day. If she asks me what I plan for it I’ll tell her I’m having takeout chinese food, playing board games and watching Netflix. Honestly there’s no reason to pressure about a fancy dinner or romantic night w…
/r/seduction23/01/18 08:03 AM
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I think she's made her intentions pretty clear. Either be friends with her or not, but clearly there's no reason to pursue anything further than that
/r/seduction20/09/17 07:10 PM
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