How to first date?

SJ_Shark_Byte · 2018-09-04T04:39:42+00:00

Get to know her, ask her questions, share relative stories and interject, really gotta pay attention. It should be fun too, you have to relax and just enjoy her company, be in the moment.

But also escalation. You have to go from friendly, light contact to more intimate stuff. It’s a date, you’re not going to make a new friend, you’re trying to bed her (somewhere down the line).

Treat her like a good friend, but remember to show your full intentions. Maybe you don’t have sex by the end of the night, but you better get a damn kiss in (and don’t wait until the end)

Ntx_skarface · 2018-09-04T10:18:14+00:00

Go to a place you can talk and be close. I like those cafe-bars with more private and confortable places to seat like the kind of underground with many smaller spaces and benches or sofas. Outside terraces or nice parks.
Know her, whats her history? had a nice childhood? had and edgy phase in highschool? what she enjoys doing? what she think will enjoy but never had the chance to try yet? what are her plans? Find a conection with your own life experiences and plans. Ask her about her feelings of all those things.
Keep in mind that she wants feelings not information, she can google data.

When she and you are confortable and have some conection escalate phisically, and speak about more intimate questions, sex and relathionships. what she's looking for? what the f are you looking for? Flirt and see if you can at least make out or fix another date for any cool stuff.

Oranjeback · 2018-09-04T22:32:14+00:00

I've taken this completely from a video that I can no longer find. I cant claim this as my own list at all. To keep things simple I sugest you try and do the following.

The fun should generally come from you on a first date. So make it a low cost, low pressure atmosphere and keep the logistics simple (i.e make it somewhere where both you and your date can easily travel to)
Have a plan for how you want the date to go i.e meet her at a park - do a lap of the park -> play mini golf or whatever -> grab a coffee.
Don't overspend (creates a weird dynamic)
Look fresh and well groomed.
Actually listen to the girl (it's amazing how easy it is to mess this up).
Don't be too small talky, overly formal and polite. Keep eye contact when you are speaking with each other.
Kino: Hug her when you meet her, if you sit down somewhere I prefer to sit either next to the girl or adjacent to her that means you can lightly touch her arm to emphasise certain points, it also means that if there are ever lulls in the convo then you're not left awkwardly staring at each other.

Ballsortahard · 2018-09-06T03:08:26+00:00

Just to bump off this, people always make "in field" videos for picking girls up, has anyone ever made a "in field" first date video?

singleguy2028 · 2018-09-04T15:19:36+00:00

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Title	How to first date?
Author	Spinuchi
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	September 4, 2018 4:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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