How can I stop trying so hard?

SelfLoveArmy · 2018-11-10T15:27:11+00:00

Be a hardcore motherfucking gentleman not a "dancing monkey" try hard.

You aren't trying too hard for her. You're trying too hard because you feel like something is missing inside you.

Let me tell you something.

The woman is lucky to be with you.

She wants good sex. If she shows interest, she has considered you as someone capable of giving her that. She wants it bad. Generally speaking, women are far more sex starved than men because sex for them is typically awful.

But you just know in your heart you don't have much to offer so you overcompensate. You KNOW you are decent, but not always enough. And you really want her to think you're enough.

But here's the deal. You are responsible for your beliefs. Entirely. Only you. Believe in yourself. Believe in your sexual worth. Love yourself. Be patient and calm. Be fun and sexual. Be a masculine man who owns his desires and wants, and unapologetically is himself. Snap the fuck out of the idea that she is even weighing you.

Your worth doesn't depend on the perception of a stranger you're coming to know. It comes from your sense of your ability to impact her emotionally, your sense of your direction, purpose, boundaries, and values.

Want to stop being needy? Have values and boundaries. Have standards. Be compassionate, strong, dominant. Be a hardcore motherfucker and a gentleman. Women will melt.

Morgow1 · 2018-11-10T04:15:53+00:00

Just have confidence; failure is learning. Don't be so hard on yourself, everbody fails. What's important is that you learn from your failures and don't be so hard on yourself just because you find something difficult at first. Another great tip is to put yourself in others shoes; will what I do to someone else come of as comfortable or positive to myself? Experiment and ask questions or you will only have failed once in your life and learnt nothing.

Joan_Zeroz · 2018-11-10T06:56:32+00:00

Stop doing "number close" and instead focus into really know the girl.

Zeroz

Title	How can I stop trying so hard?
Author	bojanglez34
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	November 10, 2018 3:51 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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