How did you guys feel after approaching a female the first time ever? After the first approach i feel like i could go and speak to anyone anywhere, we could do it before but i think we just needed some assurance. I understand no matter who i speak to really i can open with anything. Ive opened by simply asking someone "what is that?" If they had some food in their hand or something, or even "dont steal my pokemon!". I believe the key to this is my confidence and how i handle myself. I never really struggle to think of anything to say, i can just talk about anything with them. Im very beginner level at the moment. I would like to know what changed in your mind after your successful first approach, even if you didnt get a number or something its still an approach and still an increase in your social potential.

Also, im going to japan soon, would you say its good for me if i still approach here in england and maybe have a short term girlfriend before going. Im talking to several girls atm. I just think of it as positive developing experience if i do this whilst still here so why not right?