How direct is too direct?

puaCurveBall · 2012-12-12T16:35:58+00:00

Way too overthinky... just ask her to come back to your place.

This sounds way too rehearsed and (to steal from Idiocracy) way too faggy.

Apocalypse opener blows this out of the water in terms of directness and naturalness

GoldenHamster · 2012-12-12T15:39:40+00:00

If anything, this method isn't direct enough. If want to fuck the girl, just tell her. Don't beat around the bush while acting all suave and interested in her "company."

Now if we had the time we would engage in an intricate social dance, a mating ritual of push and pull, attention and neglect, until we're comfortable enough to progress to the (whatever location you want to fuck her in).

But I don't have the time or patience to play this game, so here's my proposal:

If the feeling's mutual, come hang out with me (this day, time, activity; if questioned about activity, reply with "it's not about the activity, it's about the company.")

This part is particularly weak. It's almost the opposite of seduction to explain the seduction process to her. If reading Magic Bullets to a chick turned her on, /r/seduction would be a very different place.

Simply seduce her, don't explain it. Also, the whole explanation reeks of neediness and insecurity ("please, please go out with me!").

GoldenHamster · 2012-12-12T17:28:51+00:00

What the fuck man, definitely no.

This shows way too much investment on your part, is wishy-washy about what you really want (which she will see and not like), etc.

Last semester doesn't mean shit. Get out there and sarge like everyone else. Seduce, don't convince.

I upvoted every single person below who is saying about the same thing, btw. A thousand times no to this.

IAMTHEDEATHMACHINE · 2012-12-12T16:49:23+00:00

This is a really bad idea. And it gets progressively worse the longer the monologue goes on.

more than platonic level (smile)

mating ritual of push and pull

it's up to you which route you take

Dude, no. Just no.

You think girls are gonna let you get away with being a creepy Rico Suave motherfucker just because it's your last semester in college? No way. They'll laugh in your face and you'll quickly be branded as a creep.

You want girls who are feeling loose because it's the end of college? Go out to bars and bust out the apocalypse opener until it works. But this... just don't do this.

time_and_again · 2012-12-12T19:31:58+00:00

Sounds like you're negotiating attraction. Can't be done.

Title	How direct is too direct?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	19
Date	December 12, 2012 2:30 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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