How do confident guys do it man.

ShockHatesLife · 2019-08-17T21:15:08+00:00

For me I have a mentality that u only live once there’s no time for regret or anything like that in my eyes I’m the king and nothing the king does or says is wrong. Live for the moment instead of thinking so much stop trying to plan things stop wondering what others think just live in the moment or else u will be wondering what if I had did this or said this. Stop wondering and find out speak up

drod19982510 · 2019-08-17T20:58:42+00:00

First off what negative voice, we only think positive round here....

dodged_that_one · 2019-08-17T21:31:53+00:00

They stop giving a shit.

If you say something stupid to a girl and ruin your chances, there's always another girl.

Knowing there is always another girl means you can go into every interaction knowing that worst case scenario, you've learned what not to do or say next time and you'll do better. That way every interaction is going to end positively for you, even if she storms off because at the end of the day, you've got nothing riding on her emotional state or opinion of you.

bladedfrogs · 2019-08-18T01:50:32+00:00

My mind is genetically different and I really don't care. I also laugh at any mild level of anxiety. When I mean "laugh" I more like mean psychotically cackle for about an hour in between lines of dialogue.

lifeisawork_3300 · 2019-08-18T08:20:20+00:00

Personally, I learned to fail and use that as a fuel of sorts, I been rejected and passed up on way to many times. And by virtue of that, I used it to get confident, once you get rejected once and then several times, you learn that it’s not the end of the world, you win some and you lose some as the old saying goes but what you don’t do, is just do nothing. Do I have negative voices in my head sometimes try to doubt myself, fuck yeah I do but then I tell myself “I got this shit” and if I get knocked down, I get back up.

CatTongueJohn · 2019-08-17T22:37:28+00:00

I’ve asked myself so many times. While I’m not sure if this is true, I believe most guys who are “naturally” good with women were raised in situations that required them to develop good communication and social skills early in life. It’s not that they are confident - so much as they don’t fear messing up, and know that if they do, they will be able to communicate their feelings in a way that turns things to their advantage again.

2019-08-18T16:58:19+00:00

Overcoming hard challenges and facing your fears is the only path to improvement so really do u want your goal or not?

Not_creative_fun · 2019-08-18T22:06:39+00:00

Experience. When you’ve approached and have seen every possible outcome come of it, you’ll be far more inclined to give few or zero fucks.

ntipz011 · 2019-08-17T22:56:40+00:00

Just stop giving fucks and go for what you want

IamtheonlyoneGod · 2019-08-18T00:19:26+00:00

Fuck the voice man, just man up and act faster than your brain can think, calibrate later. Act first, deal with the consequences as they come.

Also believe in yourself and know what you want. The more you become aware of your power, the more this inner voice starts helping you instead of fucking shit up

formulaNoFap · 2019-08-18T01:12:05+00:00

Tell the negative voice to shut the fuck up, grab yourself by the balls and do some shit that 99% of men are too chicken shit to do. Face your fears head on and live like a champion. The world can be yours if you continually step outside your comfort zone.

Degenthrowaway- · 2019-08-18T02:40:55+00:00

I’m hyper confident most of the time. Getting over my fear of death helped tremendously, because if you don’t fear death you shouldn’t fear anything. I’m also really into meditation, it really let’s me align myself for the situations I know I’m going into. Like I will meditate prior to going out and it works wonders. The story you tell yourself in your head and the story you tell the world should be the same. Being open and honest helps too.

lildudefromXdastreet · 2019-08-18T04:28:47+00:00

Just don't give a fuck man lol simple as that. The guys I know who pull the most get rejected a lot as well, but they don't give a damn

ivanator27 · 2019-08-18T05:04:07+00:00

At a point I used to be so depressed and negative towards myself I just suddenly stopped giving a single fuck about life and started doing what I really wanted. I picked this attitude up after adopting a "fuck the world" attitude both figuratively and literally.

ohharsen · 2019-08-18T06:15:26+00:00

One word: pain desensitization. What do you need to achieve that? Two words: des-perateness.

matthewmcvey · 2019-08-18T06:36:33+00:00

A lot of people often say things about “just don’t let it bother you” or “it’s just your head”. One thing that always helps is focusing on the fear of regret.

csajhr · 2019-08-18T07:43:45+00:00

They don't fake it. They have been successful so many times, they know they are good enough and it shows.

An insecure guy faking that he is confident? Women can smell that from a mile away.

Title	How do confident guys do it man.
Author	jikol1906
Upvotes	21
Comments	24
Date	August 17, 2019 8:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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