Hey folks,

So until recently, I had only had 1 date in my life, and I've been with the girl for 4.5 years. Broke up with her recently, and then subscribed to Tinder to get more dates, which happened.

So in real life I am quite a social person, I always make my friends laugh, I'm interesting, witty, etc.

When I go on a date though, I become different for some weird reason, I go full interrogation mode because I can never think of anything funny to say. Plus I suck at telling stories in general. I'm a boring date.

Is there anyway to change that? I mean I know that when I become natural with the person I'll be more likable, but on the first date, usually I'm not, which has the consequence of never becoming natural because the girl declines a second date.

Any suggestions?