How do I begin?

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-24T22:09:53+00:00

Any literature or yt channel with the basics?

The basics aren't in literature or youtube vids. The basics are being able to talk to girls without your mind exploding. Don't worry about dating right now. If your mind just goes blank when you're talking to a woman, you won't be able to remember anything you've seen or read anyway.

Awkward_Spinach5296 · 2024-03-24T23:53:41+00:00

You just need practice talking to people in general. Go out and have conversations with strangers. Eventually, itll get easier.

futurebannedacct · 2024-03-25T03:34:39+00:00

Do you have enough free time to get a part-time job at a restaurant? Even if it's just one or two shifts a week. Get a job at a restaurant where a decent amount of women work. The goal here isn't to make money, it's to learn how to be good with women. It will make it easier to talk to them. Try to be flirty, but in a subtle way where one couldn't definitively say they were being "hit on". Don't talk to women like you would men; men are rational and logic driven, while women are emotionally driven. So, you want to make women feel when you talk to them, if that makes sense. Being nice and safe and boring is never going to work. You'd be better off pissing her off than doing that.

Dandys3107 · 2024-03-25T06:17:08+00:00

If you don't know anything, just read everything. Also, remember about constantly improving your attractive masculine traits, body fitness, good-style clothes, hygiene, posture, voice etc.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-03-25T19:43:19+00:00

Desensitize yourself to social pressure. Do lots of approaches and each time gain feedback. Make adjustments and keep approaching. The goal is to stop caring about outcomes. Get to a point where you are just having fun and it doesn’t matter that much what the responses are.

Some guys have even done exercises where they approach, open, then say “well, I ran out of things to say. You girls are hot as shit and…” or whatever. It’s meant to desensitize you to social pressure by seeking out awkward ones.

Try to have a mindset that you need to do a lot of approaches to get control of your emotions, and have fun with it. Replace all self judging thoughts with self amusing ones.

epimpstyle · 2024-03-24T23:21:51+00:00

I even was approached once, but I didn't know what to do

This must be a joke.

Title	How do I begin?
Author	77jon
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Date	March 24, 2024 10:04 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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