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[–]frankduxing 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hooked up meaning kiss?
[–]ericrichards5971 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes and a really drunk BJ, that's about it.
[–]frankduxing 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would say there could be a couple different reasons in play here. 1) she is young and conservative about sex, bj's and the actual act of penetration are viewed quite differently in the states. 2) She doesn't think you are a high enough value man to risk allowing you to penetrate her and freaks out when it is close to reaching that point. 3) Your game crumbs at the point of closing and you need to keep the confidence high and give her the impression that you know exactly what you are doing.
[+]caP1taL1sm -6 points-5 points-4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Obviously dude, why the fuck is this the most upvoted comment
[–]dpdrdpdr 11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because hooking up isnt kissing for most people
[–]KingEjaculator 8 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Mistake : Go to party with her and her friends
You have to be alone together dude.
Even if she's with her friends and wants to come with you, she can't because she will think "What will my friends think of me if I let them to stay with him ?"
[–]ericrichards5971 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
thing is, we have most of the parties, so they just come over together
[–]keedamaister 8 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Ask her out on a date .........
I've taken her out twice
[–]keedamaister2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The take her home and get intimate...
[–]shushravens 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her to do something without her friends. Sounds like you only interact with her at parties.
[–]ZachP48 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do something out of the party scene. You need to isolate so you can strut your stuff and make it happen. Also, don't put the pressure on yourself to close.... because then it will never happen.
[–]vitamann 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree, isolate is part of the steps
[–]Nicu_99 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do you feel like her friends are cockblocking on purpose?
[–]ericrichards5971 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No they love me, but they are just always together
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
How to close = establish a real connection with her. Kino, kisses even sex does not close a woman. Unless she really wants to see you again you haven't closed her at all. Do you know her, have you even tried talking to her in anything other than club talk?
[–]ericrichards5971 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yes we snapchat and text throughout the week. Usually just snapchat frequently, I try to keep text to set up logistics.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
No I'm talking about being with her in person. Any woman will tell you a text is not the same as a phone call, and a phone call is not the same as a face to face.
[–]ericrichards5971 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think you're missing the point here.
[–]ericrichards5971 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do you recommend? We definitely are into each other and have alot of fun when we spend time together. It’s not as if we dont have a good connection outside of parties.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Romance, travel, doing things on impulse, or sometimes just staying in bed together talking.
We are in college
[–]GameAndGains -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why don't you just fuck in the bathroom at the party? I don't understand. You don't need to leave the party to fuck.
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