How do I engage the emotions?

GirTheRobot · 2013-09-01T07:57:27+00:00

Insead of simply discussing the facts, discuss the feelings that are associated with those facts. Did she just move? Was it scary? Exciting? How does she feel now? Maybe you had a similar experience. Share how you felt. Opening up like that will only make her attracted to you. As Mark Manson says, it's about being vulnerable.

nielsdezeeuw · 2013-09-01T12:36:22+00:00

I'm an aspie too. It's places like this where I get my information on all communication.

A couple or rules I have: Don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions about her. Try follow-up questions (did you like that?), open questions (what did you like about it?) and empathize on feelings (liking). Also try changing a question in an assumption (you look like you like video games).

Talk about positive things, avoid anything negative (I'm a real pessimist). She must connect you with feelings of happiness. Serious topics, factual topics, negative topics and so on are things to avoid.

Eye contact. don't look away constantly (I really need to tell myself to look at people) because this comes off as rude and uninterested.

I recommend reading a lot on the topic, watching videos, making notes and practice. Many things are possible to do outside of seduction, like in casual conversation.

Title	How do I engage the emotions?
Author	VR_Specineff
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	September 1, 2013 7:31 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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