Please help me get better at texting.

I’ve made improvements in most aspects of my game but I still have no idea how to text a girl and flirt with her. It’s ruining my in person success because I do okay getting the number but can’t follow it up with a good text conversation. The conversation always feels boring or forced and they end up losing interest. Honestly I’m not the best at texting friends either. I didn’t actually get a phone until I was around 18 so I never had that type of social interaction when I was younger. Texting is one of the most power tools for dating but I feel like I’m completely lost.

I never know if I’m texting to much, not enough. Too slow, too quick. Too wordy or too vague. Too vulgar or too vanilla. I honestly just wish I could find some who has really good text game and read through their conversations haha.

I downloaded tinder to practice but I haven’t even had a conversation that has gotten past 2 or 3 text exchanges. Any help is much appreciated.