So I understand that women like confident, charismatic men. But when does a total newbie approach a girl. Like I see an attractive girl on the street or in my class (college) and I just tell I find I think she’s interesting, talk to her and try to get her number after an instant date. Or is there something I’m missing? Also if I see a woman multiple times and not approach her, would approaching her later hurt my chances to the point to where she would impossible to get?