So it always plays out one of two ways:

  1. I meet a girl on tinder or in real life, get her Snapchat, snap back and forth and things are going well, then randomly she just doesn't respond, blocks me, or isn't interested in meeting up

  2. I meet a girl, we hang out a couple times and shits going well, but then she doesn't want to see me any more.

And when I say it's going well I mean they seem really interested in me. But then one day it's just one word responses and cold shoulders.

I really don't know what the exact problem is. I'm fairly attractive, got a good social life, I do my own thing, have hobbies and passions, I don't put them on a pedestal etc. I've tried varying types and intensities of flirting and none have really worked out for long. I also don't think I'm being creepy or anything like that. It just sucks, I feel like one reason might be I'm not interesting enough, but I'm always doing something so idk how to be more interesting.

Any and all help would be greatly appreciated