I'm a virgin in his early twenties, and I feel so ashamed about that. I never quite stop beating myself up about it, and for good reason too. Everyone around me is getting some except me, and it makes me feel inferior to the next guy, etc.

I forced myself to go out the past several weeks, and hit several bars and clubs, and opened to girls I found attractive. And even though I started out pretty good, the rejections finally got to me and I started taking it personally.

All this rejection and seeing everyone else get some except me has slowed down my progress and tainted my mind and mood in ways I can't even describe. I feel angry, and my game is off no matter who I open to. As you can imagine, when i'm angry, the rejections happen even quicker, and it coats my mind with another blanket of rage.

I feel like I am setting myself up by telling myself i'm going to get laid every time I go out to a club or bar and then come home empty handed.

How do I not take all these rejections and terrible progress personally, and how do I avoid digging a grave for myself at this point?