Ok, so i've read the theory and i've started to approach lots of different girls. I try to make as much physical contact as possible, and I try to smile and make decent eye contact. I also try to joke around and stay positive. But my ability to hold a conversation with strangers is extremely sloppy and I often feel a little awkward. I'm getting rejected by tons of girls and it's helping me, but there are things I don't know how to do, such as pulling/closing.
For example, tonight I approached this chick sitting by herself outside, and she was in front of a hotel, and she was texting on her phone. I introduced myself, and she seemed a bit shy, but introduced herself to me, and we talked for a bit. She told me she was staying in the hotel across the street and that she was a stewardess waiting in between flights, etc.
Problem was, after about 5 minutes of conversation, I had no idea how I could steer the conversation about her towards getting intimate and banging her without coming off as a serial rapist. I ended up leaving, frustrated, because I had no idea how to be direct and maintain my laid back demeanor.
How am I supposed to pull a girl? Can someone shoot me an example? Also, how do I keep conversations going when they are shy and don't seem to want to start talking about themselves extensively?
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