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[–]sergioisawesome_ 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you want to pull a trick out of the dark triad side, ask any other female to dinner tomorrow (even if its just a friend) and post a story/boomerang of it to somewhere this girl will see it. Make sure you cant see your friends face (unless she is stupid hot) just a boomerang showing the food/drinks and a short pan up where you can clearly see the body of your friend and she can tell you are with a girl.
This will get the hamster spinning, create social vale, create scarcity, create preselection and make her 5x interested in her.
She is likely to respond to the story, if so don’t reply back until after mid day the next day
Also remember you can actually have fun on the dinner so regardless its a win-win
[–]KriticalKarl 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can co-sign this, it definitely works, but it is dark if you’re intentionally pulling the strings.
I did this once without knowing it at the time, I literally had this chick who always flaked text me mad, and in her feelings because I went with someone else. Only difference is that I moved on at that point, I was out with a woman who actually showed up, figured why bother with someone who is wishy washy.
[–]Unhappy_Ad4943[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think she's worth that effort
[–]sortamaybwhatever 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
L she’s gone bro
[–]Unhappy_Ad4943[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Should I respond or not?
[–]willpowerchen 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, move on to the next girl. She’d have given you an alternate schedule if she wanted to see you. Make a date if she reaches out to you in the future.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a girl is saying good luck anywhere in the conversation it's a tell-tale sign things are going to shit.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't respond
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Reply back with: Ok, let me know when you’re free and maybe we can get together.
[–]Unhappy_Ad4943[S] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Already did that last time.
She responded with how was your day or something which leads up to casual texting and then today and this! Been about 2 weeks I would say.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like she’s trying to keep you around as a placeholder. Up to you if you’re ok with being a woman’s emotional tampon. I don’t know what you’re getting out of this, but she has you on standby. She’s not making you a priority in her life. You’re not even in her top 10 of priorities. Not cool.
[–]KriticalKarl 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yup, that’s exactly what she’s doing. Women like this in particular are looking to keep you around for validation and lead you on just enough to where you don’t give up and talk to someone else.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move on to someone that doesn’t play games.
[–]Unhappy_Ad4943[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Next then, cool. Still learning not a simp brother!
[–]willpowerchen 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Next time it happens express to her that you’d like to see her again, but you’re not interested in communicating if it’s only via text. 2 things will happen. Either you 2 will agree to meet up or 2 you end up not communicating anymore. No need to mention flakiness, frustrations, or anything negative.
[–]Plumbcrazy690 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why did she say good luck? That's my first curiosity. What was she responding to? Or was that her first statement? If it was that was a gentle goodbye.
[–]Unhappy_Ad4943[S] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her - I can be really emotional at times Me - I can handle that Her - Good luck
Nothing related to the subject here, just a casual conversation!
[–]Plumbcrazy690 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't think she's dumping you maybe she's telling the truth
[–]Able_Main_2845 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea, she might be genuine! How serious is she about her education?
[–]Plumbcrazy690 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes be patient maybe don't look anxious. Play it cool but stay interested
[–]OTXnando 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
leave it. if she was interested she would’ve have told you she would like to reschedule with you.
[–]jackzander 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is the 2nd time she has flaked me
Just to be clear, did you have dinner plans?
It doesn't count as flaking if she never agreed to your idea.
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