Long backstory short. I am relative young and growing up i have had no sexuall experice. about a half-year ago i found the tao of badass. and it changed my view on things. I started with summerworking and meet a girl. I used the the tao of badass and it worked..... before our group was split and i didn't how i was supposed to text a girl so i fucked up. and i was never alone and never able to kiss her. i texted her. and a she was positive first but then out of nowhere she stoped texted me. after 2 mouths i sent a text to her asking of why she stoped texting me. and she texted me and she said it was because of homework. i knew it was BS so i moved on. And then i was faced with one of my biggest fears. approaching women. And today i made my first real approach. i went up to a group of girl and confidently asked one girl for her number. she said she had a boyfriend. i tought "no big deal, soft rejection. I am proud to have chrushed my fear" and than a employee said that she was looking for me. she rejected me because she was nervous. And she wanted to give me her number. but i couln't find her. But then a tought went throw my mind. How do i set the expetation for the girl so that she dosen't feel played. I don't want to have a relationship at this age. i can't even have it right now. i just want to have sex. But how do i set the right expecations for the girl. At my age sex it's common but not supercommon. When i'm asking for the number how do i make sure that she dos not set a frame that if this is gonna be something it's gonna be boyfriend and girlfriend? direct approaches it's not common and theirfore how do i set the right expecations?