Not just women, but in any pressure environment situation? If I can just be comfortable and control my emotion, I know I can go a long way, but sometimes, I get nervous and even though I realize it, I still cannot control it. Heck, today, I was just thinking about going to ask the girl in my class to a date or something, and I started getting nervous. I could feel the nervousness. I also want to mention that I do not always get nervous. I have good social skills, but there are times, when I might seem awkward. So community, I am asking for any tips on how to reduce and eventually, completely remove any nervousness I have when in a particular situation such a talking to a girl that I like, or even taking a game winning shot when playing basketball. Also I would like to mention, that I do workout, play basketball, have friends, had girlfriends, have few close friends, am a nice and friendly person, and work as a software developer, if that helps any. Looking forward to hearing you guys response.