How do you achieve abundance?

Woujo · 2016-09-29T03:56:10+00:00

You don't need actual abundance. You need abundance mentality. You need to act and think as if you had multiple women in the background, even if you don't. You need to fake it till you make it.

Conotocaurious85 · 2016-09-29T03:19:08+00:00

The same thing happens in many careers. You need experience to get a job. A job provides experience. In professions we have internships.

Find 6s or even 5s and make that your internship. When you reach the point of being confident on your ability to fuck at that level, take it up a notch.

It won't be long until you notice how similar girls are regardless of looks in terms of approach. Once you get to that place the cost of approaching your ideal woman will be the same as approaching a 5.

jeanjacob · 2016-09-29T03:19:46+00:00

I think the key is to start meeting more girls AND working towards being genuinely happy by yourself, (raising your self-esteem, etc)

With the combiantion of both, you start slowly having abundance mentality. Its all in the process.

sykilik101 · 2016-09-29T16:11:22+00:00

The idea of the abundance mentality is to be able to tell yourself "Even if I don't have this thing, I'm fine because I have this, this, and this." The end goal is to have happiness and fulfillment in your life, and while girls can most certainly contribute to those things, the idea should be that even if you don't hook up with a girl or end up dating a girl, you can still have happiness and fulfillment.

Remember, part of wooing a girl is letting her see, for herself, who you are and what your life is about. If she sees that your life is pretty cool and interesting, it'll compel her to want to be part of it. What you need to do is make sure that your life is, in fact, cool and interesting. (This is obviously subjective, so you do you and do it well; girls who'd naturally click with you anyway will, well, click with you.) Remind yourself "Even if she turns me down, it's fine; I still have these things going on in my life that make me feel cool beans." If you don't have things in your life that make you feel cool beans, well, get on that.

Title	How do you achieve abundance?
Author	bozongle
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	September 29, 2016 2:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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