When you actually want a GF

after a hot date where attraction was established but you don't want to look beta because you know this type of woman runs for the hills at the first scent of weakness/neediness

i feel like explicitly saying you're looking for a ltr comes across as pathetic to them what do you guys think

at the same time i have acted too uninterested at times so that i don't look needy and accidently driven them away cause they think i'm insensitive