How do you become mentally strong?

RayMilano009 · 2018-03-07T01:49:01+00:00

It's best not to draw confidence from a girl's approval or them liking you. Your opinion of yourself should be more important the girl's opinion of you.

My suggestion would be to keep working on your social skills and realize that opinion of girls doesn't matter. You will find girls that like you as long as you maintain a positive attitude and continue to improve your style and social skills. And don't use tinder. I get almost no matches on tinder and when I do, they're usually fake, with the exception of the city of Austin. In person, I get interested girls.

Another way as you mentioned is actually to get rejected a lot more and to stay positive while doing this. It is a painful process, but it's so necessary. Keep in mind, if you maintain positivity, continue to improve and you keep talking to a high number of girls, YOU WILL GET GIRLS.

JesuslikesAsian · 2018-03-07T05:54:41+00:00

By reading books, by disciplining yourself , by pushing your self. See how the navy seal do it.

cabbagesup · 2018-03-06T23:55:18+00:00

You'll get used to it. Tinder is an entirely different world so you should remember things that happen there don't really mean anything. You can think of it as a training platform, you can try different approaches and styles, you can be anything and see how it goes. Don't take it seriously, make it fun for yourself and the rest will follow.

TheXXL · 2018-03-08T07:39:08+00:00

What you describe isn't mentally strong. You need to become mentally stable. At the moment your source of validation is other people, most likely because you haven't achieved anything in your life yet. Start with your own life, achieve things, learn and that it's only you that can change anything for you and your confidence will grow. Also you he more women you actually interact with, and online dating isn't what I'm talking about since it's a weak man's tool, the more you start to not care about rejection.

throwawaylilbastard · 2018-03-07T00:15:47+00:00

Honestly, the best way is to go to the army.

You are going to deal with a lot of shit, training, very hard exercises and people yelling at your face. You are going to be immune to all of these once you do a year or two. Discipline and mental toughness.

Title	How do you become mentally strong?
Author	IIlovevideogames
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Date	March 6, 2018 11:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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