More and more, i'm noticing that people only actually 'pull' from the dancefloor. Often times, me and my friends will of course approach girls earlier in the night, sometimes it goes OK but most of the time they are not interested in tlaking to strangers so early on, and more often than not, if someone pulls, it's with a girl that they opened on the dancefloor much later at night.
So I want to get better at dancefloor approaches, but I have a woeful track record.
I feel as though I have read lots of the advice about what to do/ how to open etc, but it never ever works for me.
The popular advice is always ether:
1/open her. Say hi and Comment on her dancemoves and just start dancing with her
2/Just be physical. No talking. Smile and extend your hand. SHe'll take it. Start dancing and pull her towards you.
3/Just be having fun. Don't open the girls. They'll open you if they see you having fun and being non-needy
4/Wait until a girl is giving you IOI's such as she keeps looking at you, or she dances in your space. At that point, just grab her, or say hi or whatever
5/Break her out of her thought and be hgh energy/breaking rapport like JulienRSD. ''hEY!! Who are you!!'' and grab her
I feel as though I alternate all of this advice in variuos interactions, and i'm almost always met with a girl looking at me like I killed her hamster
On Saturday, they all failed, most suprisingly, even 'Number4' where the girls were seemingly dancing in my space and made a point of moving towards me from a different part of the dancefloor. At that point, I turned towards them whilst dancing and smiled and said ''what's up?!'' and she looked at me like a creeper and then grabbed her mate to save her from me, lol.
So, any new thoughts out of interest?
Anyone here good at night game? (Please don't reply if you are another super handsome dude who just skates by on good looks, as anything will work for you lol)
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