Can we learn from our interactions? What have you learnt?

jbperson94 · 2019-08-08T13:33:13+00:00

I’ve learned to be myself and not give a sh*t. A girl isn’t interested? Whatever. I’m doing whatever helps me reach my goals, and if she can’t/doesn’t want to help with that, then I’m moving on. If she just doesn’t vibe with the way I act, why would I want to be with her anyways? Bye 👋.

ElSoixanxico · 2019-08-08T14:45:23+00:00

I used to "analyse" my interactions by reviewing whole scene and what could have been said to improve the interaction.

Guess what? Bad idea, because you are overcritizing yourself as you will find more bad points than good ones; and it isn't improving self-confidence.

However, what you can do is thinking in advance about what to do (like having open body language) and what to not do (telling your life like it was the next Spielberg).

Feel free to answer this comment, we all got a lot to learn :)

eleminionur · 2019-08-08T15:51:05+00:00

If she thinks you are ugly/you are not her type / whatever, nothing you do or say is gonna change that

Women are just the same as us in that respect, despite what some blue pilled fantasists who think women don't have any free will, might have you believe lol

FlakyAnimator · 2019-08-08T15:54:08+00:00

but the truth is that he was just her physical type, and no matter what he'd have done, it would likely have worked

exactly.

Most people mistake 'game' for just being a girls physical type

Physical attraction is a PRE REQUISISTE in a successful pick up. Sorry. Truth (although you and most others seem to understand that from the looks of thing lol)

2019-08-09T02:07:35+00:00

You are already lost because you are trying too hard.

Be confident, be yourself and the rest does not matter.

FairAnalyst · 2019-08-09T16:40:42+00:00

Yea I’ve learned tons. I do a/b testing of different lines at specific stages of my pickup and I can reliably say that the words you say do matter.

Like sometimes the effectiveness of certain actions or words can ruin or close the interaction perfectly.

I also use a structure so I can reliably replicate certain points of a social interaction to do my testing. But a lot of guys just wing it and do whatever and if you’re like that, then testing and learning stuff is gonna be way harder.

brabg · 2019-08-08T15:12:42+00:00

but the truth is that he was just her physical type, and no matter what he'd have done, it would likely have worked.

Bullshit. I had women who were totally cold to me, and even hostile, and I turned them on.

Women believe whatever you believe. All their "convictions" are hollow, shallow. Lack depth.

Women do not have convictions. They use their beliefs as clothes, just to fit in the community. They change beliefs to match the environment.

Women aren't on or off. They are a thermometer. The temperature may be cold, but you can warm them slowly. Girls don't dislike you, at worst, they like you too little, at a given point.

What you learn from practice is social calibration.

One important thing to do with hostile girls, is to not react with hostility. When people is hostile, is generally because they are expecting unfairness, and they expect even more hostility from you.

If you don't get in the hostile mindset, you throw them out of equilibrium, and they realize that you are not a threat.

It may be explained as:

-Don't enter her frame.

-Agree and amplify.

-Be cocky and funny.

-Passing a shit test.

But is actually dissipating the confrontative mindset, showing that you are not a threat, and that you do not defend your ego, and do not judge her.

Title	Can we learn from our interactions? What have you learnt?
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Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	August 8, 2019 10:23 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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