So about six months ago I was dating this petite HB8. She's 22. After about three dates the relationship wasn't going to the next level (having sex) so we called it quits. We stopped all contact. When we do run into each other we just say hi and act real polite, not really any hard feelings. The dates went really well, we were making out and getting real close but the second I mentioned sex she starts to get real defensive. I think it's because she's a virgin and she comes from a no sex before marriage POV. I basically forgot about her these last six months but lately we've been talking and it's obvious she's still into me. I'm wondering if there's any way I can move the relationship forward to the point of having sex at this point in time. I really don't have one-itis on this girl because I've already moved on but would there be a chance of salvaging this? Would you guys try and escalate or just move on? Also, how do you escalate with a female virgin?