I have never had any idea what I want to do 'when I grow up'. I did a finance degree because I was interested in it personally to learn about shares and other investment. But I hated all finance jobs I worked in.

Now, I work in IT because I didn't really need qualifications, and it pays very well even at helpdesk here in Australia.

But still, all I do is work, go home, attempt to stay fit, do some yoga, and play some video games. Weekends are mostly wasted by hanging around, sleeping in, shopping. I have no success with women / am mostly too needy because I have no purpose in life so that's what my mind focuses on.

I'm 31 now, and still nothing stands out as 'thats what I want to do with my life and put my energy towards'. I've never really had any creative/artistic hobbies either. I've tried some instruments like guitar but it's an uphill battle, not fun or interesting.

So how do I figure out what the hell I really want to do or what I stand for?