How do you get better at implementing what you practice?

norwegiandoggo · 2020-12-12T12:47:17+00:00

More time, more practice. There isn't a shortcut here.

BensonInFL · 2020-12-13T09:21:38+00:00

Sometimes when Im dating I end up forgetting some of the new things I try to internalise and work on.

That used to happen to me time from time, and its a reminder that you know the tactics/techniques/mindset, but you haven't internalized the frame yet... for example..

Girl: I'm sorry, I was 45 minutes late, I had to fold my laundry..

Your initial reaction: Oh, its okay, I don't mind waiting for you, I'm glad you decided to come

Later you think about something better: I was about to call it a night. Well.. next time you show up late, I'm going to have to discipline you (*look into her face and smile laugh*)

Most of the time, its not that you don't remember or can't think about what you should say.. it's that you are afraid of offending the girl so you say something else, it comes off weak, and then you realize it and wish you could say what you actually wanted to.... so to answer your question about how to internalize the principles, think about *what* prevented you from saying what you actually wanted to... i.e. putting the girl on a pedestal, anxiety/fear, etc... try to be as specific as possible...and then work on that

-B

mrjonesjj · 2020-12-12T14:46:55+00:00

The important thing is how you handle it when you notice the date starting to go downhill. Don’t dwell on it or resist it (remember whatever resists persists). Let the awareness come into your mind, and then let it go. By letting go of the fact that the date may be going bad, you’ll allow yourself to be comfortable with “failure” so to speak, and comfort usually brings about better game. Once you’re comfortable, your errors will likely fade away and you’ll be back to your normal self. Just stay present to the moment and get out of your head.

Title	How do you get better at implementing what you practice?
Author	Philipparty
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	December 12, 2020 12:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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