How do you guys manage your time with multiple girls?

ntipz011 · 2018-11-29T20:06:53+00:00

See them once each at least every 10 days, work out earlier if needed (I have a gym right in front of my workplace, it takes me 1hour a day after work). Text them every once in a while when something funny reminds you about them in particular.

Find closer girls also, lol

As for myself, I don't do ONS much, just meet cute girls and we date until they have a dedicated boyfriend or they do something crazy.

Sometimes in juggle 5 girls, sometimes there is not a single one I want to even hook up with.

But yeaeh I do agree it takes some time on your free time, but that's for the best right ? Id say, try to make your evenings more free for them.

kneeeil · 2018-11-29T20:11:13+00:00

Ive learned through my experiences that having 3 at once is my max. I've done 5 and it was honestly so exhausting it's not even worth it. I get away with it by always seeming super busy. The one I like the most I'll snap with constantly and keep the other two to minimal snaps. I like snap because there's no real record asside from best friends. I use a smart watch that only vibrates and have all my notifications on my phone turned off so it only shows up on my watch if for some reason they do look at my phone to check something I don't get screwed and have to explain who that is.

hunterpua · 2018-11-29T22:11:20+00:00

How often do you text them?

Everyday but its usually just me replying when they text me so that's nice because I don't have to think so much.

How often do you see them?

Quite often as well since I integrate them into my social circle. That also means that usually all the girls I'm sleeping with get to meet each other. I don't get much shit for it because every girl I sleep with knows that I am seeing other girls from the very beginning, often even before they've kissed me for the first time which means they fuck me knowing full well that I am and will continue to sleep with other girls so they really won't be in any position to attack me for sleeping with multiple women. Its great because it makes my game so passive because there is such a competitive vibe among the girls that theres really not much else for me to do when it comes to maintaining things with any individual girl. All of them are just too preoccupied with trying to "win" so they're more concerned about pleasing me than me pleasing them.

I introduce all of them to each other but I don't introduce them as "the other girls I'm fucking" they just kind of have a feeling. I find that makes the competition even more intense because it can induce a slight paranoia in the girls. A female friend who is completely platonic with me can come over, say hi and give me a big hug and there could be one girl who I'm sleeping with who sees that and thinks that's her competition so my girls are usually always on their toes and that's awesome for me because I can just lay back and let them do all the work.

Also, when I want to sleep with an individual girl I just tell her to come over to my place to hang out, so its not that difficult to manage my time.

How long do you typically see a particular girl for?

3 months give or take.

There are some though who are like friends that you only see occasionally. Like we can be having sex a lot for 2 weeks and then we don't see each other for 9 months but as soon as we get together again we go back to having sex. I think my record is 2 years, when I was in an exclusive relationship I stopped talking to all the girls I used to have casual fun with but when that ended some of the old flings were still down. If you're pretty good at sex and very chill about it, it won't be that hard to have this kind of thing with a few girls.

Is the lineup constantly changing, or do you settle into a nice selection?

It is constantly changing. There are always new girls coming in and some of the old girls leaving. I don't care to settle into anything unless its settling into an exclusive relationship. That said, there have been "iron women" basically the girls who try to stay in the longest in hopes of getting me to be exclusive with them and I have so say, some have succeeded.

I try to spend 4 evenings a week working out. Other days I like to spend by myself, with family, or with friends. I'm finding that I can spare maybe 2 evenings a week for girls. Admittedly, I live in the vicinity of, but not actually in, a large city, so I'm often half an hour out from these girls.

I work out 3x a week in my home gym always right before lunch. I don't see my family a lot because I live in a different city. I work from home and prefer to stay home instead of go out but at the same time I like socializing so I usually have the party come to me. My friends just come over to my place and we have a dinner party or a full blown house party about once a week, that includes my girls so I'm seeing them too. On other days I either have a chick come over to my place in the evening or go with me as I go out to do what I want to do or what I have to do.

If you're living with your family that's kind of a difficult position to be in if you want to see multiple women. If not you should have the girls come over to your place more often, its so much easier if you can get them to come to you instead of going to them because theres many of them but theres only one you. Also, try to be honest about seeing multiple women at the very beginning of the relationship, that makes a world of difference.

Mythical7Ninja · 2018-11-29T22:40:57+00:00

I always send a funny post to their Instagram and when they respond I build up a conversion and catch up with them. I never really expect anything to come out of it but when I plan something with them it really makes me look forward to seeing them. Try not to overthink it. Just hangout with who is available on your own time. Being busy is not a bad thing.

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Title	How do you guys manage your time with multiple girls?
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Date	November 29, 2018 8:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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