How do you turn yourself from a guy, nobody cares about and ignores to a guy who people respect without him having to do much?

JE163 · 2018-03-30T18:56:26+00:00

There are a few factors that go into that:

Honesty: Men like this say what they mean and mean what they say.

Charisma: Lot of resources out there on this.

Presence: Ever meet someone and the whole room seems to gravitate to him? That. Learning to be a grounded, confident and open person is the hardest part and takes the most work.

Toralv_Wiens · 2018-03-30T18:53:07+00:00

My first idea would be to create a new frame as in "Who are you and what is your relationship to the owner of the phone".

LingeringGnome · 2018-03-30T22:07:28+00:00

Weight training. Hygiene. Decent clothes.

those three things right there will get you more respect without speaking a word.

The others are inner game.

Rick-Morty · 2018-03-31T17:09:40+00:00

Confidence, gain muscle, charismatic and nice but not a pushover.

whi7e · 2018-03-30T23:45:54+00:00

Option 1: Figure out what the phone owner's name is. Tell the person you're calling to tell the phone's owner to reach at said bar and if he pays you a drink he/she can have their phone back. Once they arrive, chat with them over a drink, get to know them, explain to them you're new in the city and ask if they can introduce you to some people.

Option 2: Mass SMS all of their contacts to reach at said bar, once they show up, ask them what their relationship / friendship with the person is? Tell the ones you judge most pertinent to facebook the person and ask them to come to the said bar cause they have something for them without giving any more details (while informing them you have the phone), yes, all of them even if it's like 10 people. Place the phone somewhere extremely strategic in the bar like, surrounded by neon lights or some shit, or give it to the hottest guy / girl in the bar (depending on the person's gender). Once the person shows up and is confused AF (and they will show up cause unrelated contacts of theirs asked them to come), introduce yourself and guide them to their phone.

Title	How do you turn yourself from a guy, nobody cares about and ignores to a guy who people respect without him having to do much?
Author	Toralv_Wiens
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	March 30, 2018 6:48 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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