How does one go about building inner game and a positive life?

ninja_possum · 2015-06-21T15:35:49+00:00

You're 16, stay away from that RSD shit. It will give you a warped view of women. Women pick up on that shit and you become the 'creepy' guy. Be a better man and women will come to you, no tricks needed.

If you're somewhat indoors bound, I'd use the time to explore knowledge and learn. Soak up documentaries, books and movies. Make a list of classic movies and go watch them! Read some classic books. At 16 I'd highly recommend Catcher In The Rye (you need to read this as a teenager, its not as good when you're an adult), 1984 or even some Hemmingway. Learn how shit works.

Being an interesting person with a wide scope of knowledge helps you get along socially.

punkgoat · 2015-06-21T14:58:41+00:00

For me there are two basic things that help me achieve inner game and a positive life: Exercise and Doing New Things.

Exercise

Simply doing any form of exercise is going to release a whole load of chemicals that make you happy and make you feel bliss. Also as a side effect you'll get in better shape. When you push yourself to the edge you really get to know yourself. Plus points if you get competitive with yourself and try to beat your personal records.

Doing new things

Your life will feel a lot more positive and richer if you do new things. Nothing great is achieved when you do the same old thing everyday. Do new things, try new experiences, and meet people along the way.

Think about it… you could do the same thing for 6 weeks, or you could do something new everyday over the next 6 weeks. Which one is going to give you more memories? Which one is going to make you grow more as a person? Personally I think it would be the one where you stepped in to the unknown and tried new things.

Exercise + Doing New Things

Doing the above will make you interesting. And I personally think that people are interested in interesting people. Suddenly your inner game comes off naturally, because you as a person will have such great content to work with, e.g.:

“Did I tell you about the time I went cave exploring in XYZ?” or “Oh you run as well? I really got in to it over my travels. Maybe we should run sometime?”

skippytatertots · 2015-06-21T15:19:17+00:00

The one advice that I tell all my friends talk to everyone!!! Not just girls everyone and smile more! Talking to everyone just helps u develop inner confidence some knowledge actually given to me for my speech anxiety! You become more comfortable with your words! Be positive learn to accept rejection and probably the funniest one but douchey hit on girls that you are out of their league then say no when the times comes. It's a really satisfying feeling lol

samirahmad2594 · 2015-06-22T06:10:29+00:00

Watch the speech from Wolf of Wall Street everyday, I watch it well because I'm in Finance/Banking so I need to. But still helpful and applies to other areas of life. Cheers, m8

jzell3 · 2015-06-26T20:15:04+00:00

Read and meditate

Title	How does one go about building inner game and a positive life?
Author	poweroftheduck
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	June 21, 2015 12:35 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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