How does one stop getting butthurt?

Puppyluvtheshow · 2020-07-17T04:18:00+00:00

Aye don’t be easily accessible to her. Even if you aren’t busy say that you are. Don’t get stuck in the Zone man. Remember you are a legend in these streets bro. You gotta let her know your intentions. Can’t be out here spending with her if it’s not leading anywhere

Puppyluvtheshow · 2020-07-17T04:29:41+00:00

If she is bad then go chill, but if u look at her as more than a friend you gotta let her know what your intentions are and be willing to let her go if she isn’t on the same wave. It’s easier said then done, but it needs to be done.

appleORorange · 2020-07-17T04:47:09+00:00

the best way of doing this is to already expect that outcome, then its of no surprise when it happens.

Shortblaq_rod · 2020-07-17T05:17:15+00:00

Don't see/hangout tomorrow night. I know it's going to be extra hard for you as you clearly like her. But believe me on this, if you do end up seeing her anyways she'll likely shut you down again because you're of no value to her due to your actions, like you're too easy for her. Let her know you can't see her tomorrow night as you've got plans already even if you haven't got any (don't show any weakness or butthurt vibe) but try to suggest a different date for possibly next week or so. If you're a beginner you'll probably fuck it up by getting all excited but if you're somewhat decent/intermediate (not necessarily advanced) with girls then you should be able to succeed.

Kenic_In_MD · 2020-07-17T05:50:55+00:00

Stop getting so emotionally invested. You barely know these girls yet you are putting so much emotion and feeling into the interactions. Take a step back, you don't know them well yet. As such stop investing so much into a non-existent relationship and you'll find yourself less hurt by stuff like this.

If you feel like she slighted you and you truly aren't interested anymore just tell her you're busy. If she asks to reschedule you can always tell her you don't have the time, are no longer interested, or say nothing all together. It's really up to you.

LupeCorleone · 2020-07-17T05:18:34+00:00

I'd agree but set the terms so that if she flakes you're not overly put out. For instance at a bar very near you, or at your place.

-Magic-M · 2020-07-17T11:26:08+00:00

easy reschedule. if she wants to hang out make it a day you want not her so she sees that you make the decision and your not to available. if she doesn’t want to do that drop her.

Title	How does one stop getting butthurt?
Author	ricoconyo
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	July 17, 2020 4:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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