How to get rid of oneitis?

klashnikov55 · 2020-08-02T09:48:23+00:00

Start Lifting
Work on yourself, get busy and aim for success in life. Once you are ambitious, and know that everything else is small before your ambition, you'll stop putting anyone on pedestal.
Remember she is just a person, keep reminding yourself that she is just another human that you are attracted to. If you like a bike, do you start putting it on pedestal, and start worshipping it kr you ride it like there is no tomorrow? Also, people can be trash, men and women alike.
Interact with more women (romantically or not, your choice). That'll give you confidence that if this doesn't work out, I am capable of finding another one. This also builds abundance mentality.
ONeitis IS generally caused due to excessive amount of attention to just one woman. By being busy with your work and yourself, you reduce the amount of attention you are paying to her, and will reduce the ONeitis significantly.
There is no "one". People marry and divorce, even after finding their "one". You both might get along well for life, maybe it'll work out, maybe it won't. Always remember this. Better treat her like a person, than a god/unicorn. She herself doesn't think so highly of herself.

Popular_Chapter · 2020-08-02T09:37:11+00:00

By having multiple women

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-08-02T16:27:31+00:00

The best way is to have 8-itis 😂 Kidding. It’s actually not.

But check this out: its not really a matter of having more women in your life- though doing so is an easier way to realize the idiocy of oneitis. Provided you’re in the proper mental space to begin with.

You need to not look to the external for a solution or understanding. It’s important that you investigate your past to understand why you do this, what your unconscious is seeking and why.

Why is this gravely important? Because even if you have a roster of women, if you have not sorted out your unhealthy attachment issues you’ll be in the same boat as before just now with more than one woman.

ToriFinesse · 2020-08-02T14:23:08+00:00

Bro its hard but you can do it. Even when u dating 3 5 6 women at a time its always that one who just stand out and is everything you want. Sleep with another woman will break the spell but it all boil down to VALUE. you have to learn to value who you are the way you are. The rest is unlearning bad habits. I been at this 5 years now on a street level. Total transformation but the human nature element is always a factor its a journey not a destination. I still find weakness in me and work to eliminate them all as possible. What you are looking for psychologically speaking she can't give you. Read The Manipulated Man. See it from a woman point of view. It will change you

2020-08-03T04:04:12+00:00

Abundance mindset

EricJr123456 · 2020-08-02T08:06:49+00:00

I have her reject you completely.

DtS40 · 2020-08-03T21:30:46+00:00

Can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in the same frustrating position, live and learn is my motto. Next opportunity you find in front of you, just make sure to do what you didn’t do last time.

Jaii_k · 2020-08-02T12:56:39+00:00

why would you want to wanna get rid of it? it will dissapear with time

but oneitis is something pure and beutiful

Title	How to get rid of oneitis?
Author	ricoconyo
Upvotes	18
Comments	19
Date	August 2, 2020 8:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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