Lately, due to my attitude and help from this community, I've been more successful with women than ever before in my entire life. I've been meeting women everywhere - bars, grocery stores, clubs, partys - geting very few flakes, having good dates, building relationships, getting laid by different girls every night, etc.

In addition to various dates and more casual hookups that I've had going from time to time, there are 3 women that I've been dating pretty seriously for about the same amount of time 3-4 months. They're all great in different ways, but truth be told, I would like to get more serious with one in particular.

This girl is very beautiful, very confident and has a great sense of humor - we have the most fun together all the time. She is the kind of girl that every guy wants, and she isn't desperate or clingy at all, but very attracted to me. We both have been sort of playing chicken about asking if the other is seeing anyone else. She is the sort of girl who is used to guys pushing for her to commit and not the other way around. She's always the one ending relationships never getting broken up with, and I'm the same way. We are both used to wearing the pants.

We have a week long vacation together soon, and I fucked up while sleepy and joked about us getting jobs at the resort location and just staying there. I said 'you could be a Doctor' there. Well, she isn't a Doctor. LOL, thats the other girl I was dating. Me and that girl already broke up recently because she knew I was seeing this girl and couldn't keep seeing me if I wouldn't be exclusive with her.

The girl I'm going on the trip sort of knew I was dating other people - she had suspicions and even found me with a big hickey one time, but that was maybe 5 dates in, and I think as we've gotten more serious she just assumed I had stopped. I also have tended to talk about picking up women a lot around her, and the first night we met, my wingwoman actually said something to her friends about how I date a lot of girls.

Is there any way to develop a healthy relationship from this? I fear that she will always distrust me and be jealous. This must be an issue for a lot of you, as I know a lot of guys out here sort of vacillate between being PUAs and juggling lots of women in non-serious relationships and then picking one for having a more serious relationship with.

I know I should tell her that I want to be exclusive with her, but I know she is going to ask about when the last time I was with another girl was, etc. And I'm not sure honesty is the best policy here.

I would also appreciate tips on how to not lose my game completely while in a relationship - do you guys still practice picking up women and just never follow up with them, or just pick them up as friends? I get such a rush of satisfaction out of just being my flirty self with women, that I don't want to turn into this neutered version of myself when I go out with friends and my girl isn't around.