How does the approach work with different musical styles playing?

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-03-09T16:10:09+00:00

These excuses become ridiculous with each day.

Soon will be “I can’t approach because there isn’t enough oxygen in air”.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-03-09T18:04:40+00:00

As much as I love day game (more than night game), I can tell you that a night game is much easier for quick hookups. This situation is a good example of why.

You don’t even have to rely on talking (much). You have “an excuse” to not talk much because of the loud music. What you gotta do instead is relying on close proximity thus easier escalation. It’s more like 80% physical, 20% verbal.

If you wanna open just kinda yell close to her ear (“I love this song, dance with me!” or “show me what you got! Dance with me!”) and offer your hand. If the music is not fit for hugging while dancing so what, 1-3 feet apart is good enough.

You don’t even have to ask her name, or whether she’s been here before, or what makes her come here, all that crap. But going forward it’s more about physical interactions and start from there. If she’s receptive enough then keep going, if not then move on.

DaygameCode · 2025-03-09T19:13:32+00:00

Just act like you are in a playground teasing her, messing with her, poking fun at her lightheartedly… Stick out your tongue, give her the middle finger, wink at them,… etc and then pretend like you did nothing, so they’ll get a little bit triggered and take the bait.

Many will usually demand explanations from you, and then you can either gaslight them acting like you have no idea what they are talking about, that they must have been hallucinating, or that maybe it was them who did it, or that they have you confused with other guy… or just say it was your way to get their attention.

This will start a conversation, and what matters is that you reassure them through your tone that it’s not serious, that you are just playing and then introduce yourself and that will usually get many of them invested in talking with you, as opposed to being a formal predictable boring guy who says and does the same shit as the other dudes who they reject.

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-09T19:03:23+00:00

You are thinking about this too much. You need to talk louder if the music is louder. Even louder than you think.

You can also extend your hand (i.e. hand of god) and not say anything to open.

Title	How does the approach work with different musical styles playing?
Author	Mefick
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	March 9, 2025 3:57 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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