I ask because, generally I don't get women looking at me, unless I dress really nice; which is usually y'know.

For the most part, I am clean shaven, I have hair about down to my chest lingth. I usually tie it back in a man-bun, clean shaven; dress super nice and then I will get noticed. For the most part.

However, I remember when I was younger 21-23 I had buzz cut, or short hair and women always looked at me. I remember those days and was working out. Seems women don't like the long haired guys, and hate the man bun. So it seems I have to work extra hard to get attention; and I even have to push hard to open women.

On the contrare, when my hair is short; well cut I look more like a Clint eastwood / paul newman type of guy. But as for now, since my hair is look I kinda look like Dracula or steven seagal; not very popular in the lady department I know.

What would you guys say?

I push through it though every single day and try to open women as much as I can; and they generally recieve me well; think I could get more tho if I shortened hair; it is what it is I guess.