How long do I need to wait?

ZenoGeno · 2024-03-14T19:05:10+00:00

Hit the gym, might improve your looks and confidence

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-03-14T19:10:51+00:00

I am an ugly,

Eat healthy, hit the gym, get better clothes, get a better haircut.

rude human being.

That is completely within your control to fix.

I don't even have anyone to talk, I don't even have anyone to come with me to watch films to go to restaurants, to go on long late night walks. Everyday morning when I check out my phone I wish someone would have texted me or there should be a someone whom I should text.

While you are single maybe make some friends you can do this with or do this with your current friends.

I started skin care routine, I started applying perfumes which I never used to do

Both of these things are next to useless. Just have basic hygiene and you should be good.

I started reading and gaining knowledge so I could start a conversation

The best way to learn how to start a conversation is to socialize and start conversations. The experiences you have while socializing and the stuff people will tell you will give you plenty of content for future conversations. Do things you enjoy and talk about those things with people with similar interests. We are thinking so much its hard to turn the mind off sometimes so its really anxiety that stops you from having something to say. Maybe you are doing all this to procrastinate talking to people because you are anxious.

offinthewoods10 · 2024-03-14T22:33:01+00:00

Homie you got to start loving yourself, and doing things that are in line with that.

Treat yourself like you’d treat someone else. All this negativity is not helping you at all. Learn to be confident and content with yourself, go out and do things in spite of not having anyone to go with you. You should not wait for someone else to show up to start living life, that isn’t how it works.

Get in good physical shape, pursue your interests, and become more social. Don’t worry about the women in your life, focus on doing things that make you a better person and someone you are proud of. When you hit your stride you’ll find that women are interested in you.

This all takes work and dedication, and might take you some time. But it’s better to be heading down the right path than not going anywhere at all.

DaygameCode · 2024-03-14T19:00:45+00:00

You need to cold approach women and talk to them. That’s the basic first step towards increasing your chances. If you don’t approach women you will never get a girl.

Scheefgaan · 2024-03-14T19:29:22+00:00

Start with your own self image. You can’t expect to be loved by someone if you can’t even love yourself to a certain degree. Apply yourself. Start going to social events like raves, parties, or concerts and just fucking whip up a conversation with strangers, dudes included! You’ll be surprised how easy everything actually ends up being in the end.

MyUsername0_0 · 2024-03-14T19:54:37+00:00

Honestly I didn't start getting better with women until my late 20's so don't necessarily feel like you're hopeless.

If you truly want to get better with women you do have to work on yourself and make yourself as attractive as you can to women.

The most important part is that you must take massive action.

If you don't socialize with women you won't get any. And i'm not talking about approaching 1 girl a week or getting drunk and approaching one girl.

(in the beginning its okay to approach few girls since I know its harder when you're starting off)

Over time though you have to approach a lot.

I think it took me a couple hundred approaches at night before I ever pulled one solely because I didn't know what I was doing.

Etesech26 · 2024-03-18T20:47:53+00:00

You also could try to find a part time job where you get to deal with people. Back in the day after a breakup that killed me I started bartending, I met a good deal of girls while I worked there. Try the cold approach and the -I’m not interested- you’ll make them wanna get you in bed. I’m not the most handsome man on earth. I assure you it works.

Tall_Simple7307 · 2024-03-18T21:44:34+00:00

If you don't work on yourself you will never achieve what you want

Title	How long do I need to wait?
Author	LeaderFlimsy
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Date	March 14, 2024 6:53 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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