How much communication before a date?

joshsway · 2014-07-10T17:05:03+00:00

As little as possible.

gramsespektrum · 2014-07-10T20:28:16+00:00

Stop texting her. Here's what you need to talk about before the date: Where you're going, when you're meeting up, what's the plan (as in: are you going out for a cup of coffee or eating dinner?) and that's it.

If you don't text her she will think about you, wonder what you're like etc. because she doesn't know. The more you text and the more information you give her, the less exciting you will seem. You know who sends her a lot of texts? Her friends. You're not her friend, you're guy she's going on a date with.

Optikputs · 2014-07-10T18:42:02+00:00

Imo as little as possible unless it just comes naturally, don't force anything and don't write to her/snap with the intention of "omg I gotta talk a little". If the conversation flows then it flows, if not just chill till the date.

foopmaster · 2014-07-10T16:37:58+00:00

Just go about your normal business and don't worry too much. If she happens to contact you, reply back. No need for extended convo, though. Gotta leave something to talk about on your date!

shewhogoesthere · 2014-07-10T16:50:31+00:00

Yes, some texting is a good idea. You're going through the process of getting to know each other and you want to build some anticipation/momentum before your date. You dont need to have long detailed conversations, just exchange a few texts a day.

Title	How much communication before a date?
Author	hmcomt
Upvotes	8
Comments	6
Date	July 10, 2014 4:34 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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