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[–]BurntYams 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
absolutely not, we here use texting as a tool to set up dates and keep the contact alive when you guys can't see each other that often (BUT DONT USE THAT EZCUSE TOO MUCH). If you're always in her inbox, you're gonna give off the idea that you have no real interesting life and no hobbies and etc. and more importantly, you're gonna come off as clingy. The "text back after X amount of time after she texts back" still applies. It gives off the vibe that she's not what your world revolves around and that you have an interesting life and she will soon want to be apart of it. If this chick is a solid HB12 then she's GONNA have niggas in her inbox and texting her back the SECONS she replies, and she's used to that, especially having dudes all over her, what she isn't used to is a dude texting her back slowly and not having a dude all over her. Women want to feel wanted, not needed. Remember that
[–]Vloshko 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with everything BurntYams said unless you are trying to form a healthy and growth oriented long-term relationship. Reply if that's your goal.
[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea, everything BurntYams said.
Don't reply right away, send a cute meme the represents your type of humor, maybe once or twice per week, but that's it, don't have big conversations over txt. If she tries to start a big conversation then stop and just call her.
Now, you should also be meeting new girls now too. You are not in a committed relationship yet, so you owe it to yourself to meet as many girls as you can. This may also help you be busy when she does txt or call you. This can then make you seem more attractive, as she will see the more desirable you are to other women.
[–]mmmzesty 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Message her whenever something interesting happens. Or just text her whenever you actually want to talk about something, like a normal person. Just don't appear needy. You're a busy guy, you do cool hobbies and shit, text her back in between breaks and stuff. After I started dating my girlfriend, she told me my texting algorithms would make her jump at her phone whenever I texted her, because it was pleasant and surprising to finally get a text. I'm not saying you should time your texts, but if you're genuinely busy don't go out of your way to respond. Texting in life should not be a priority because there are more important things.
[–]RytekBJJ1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
After setting a date don't contact her at all. Just show up to the date on time. Never once has a woman stood me up, so don't believe anyone who says women will think you're mean or rude or disinterested because you don't text all the time.
Of course if they text you then you can reply, but don't let it turn into a conversation. If she keeps texting tell her you're busy and need to get back to work, but you're looking forward to seeing her on the date and you'll be all hers. That sets the expectation you're not her texting buddy, you're her lover she goes on dates with.
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[–]BurntYams 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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