How should I text going forward here? (Tinder number)

khadd909 · 2018-08-27T21:20:16+00:00

If She’s sends the # simply say let’s go out, hold hands, share stories, laugh hard, have a drink, dance all night, kiss hard, and then let the chips lay where they may

Janiuszko · 2018-08-27T20:50:43+00:00

You should've blurred the face.

FastDario · 2018-08-28T02:43:05+00:00

Okay I'll preface this by saying you should have indeed blurred out her info.

Right off the bat your coming off as a little needy. I say this respectfully friend because I want you to get laid. The opener is good. It's funny and sexual. Immediately asking her what her plans are this week is no bueno. She doesn't know you yet. Asking her to hangout immediately after she gives you vague answer is digging the whole deeper. So you want her number and go for it. Good. That's why your there but here's what your structure looks like.

opener
logistical question
Proposing date
asking for number

Here's what my structure has looked like. Using an example of when I got layed (7x from tindr if I member correctly).

Opener
Sexual joking and banter
joke and logistical ex. " yeah my nickname is blue agave daddy, how long are you in x city?"
more rapport about what shes doing here "Im only here until friday doing x"
Seed idea of a date/meetup " Oh thats a bummer that just means you have to meet me on thursday so you can tell me all about x :)"
Solidify the logistics a bit. Dont set up an exact time just general ideas of what you will do together.
Get the number and get HER to TEXT YOU. "Haha yeah that sounds like a good time. Shoot me a text girl (insert phone number)"
She texts you.

All of this was accomplished in 7 messages in this particular instance.

Also good job on not killing her with compliments. That shit rarely works. This is not a blue print but it should make things clearer. General tips for you my dude would be

build more rapport and crack a few more jokes
Use DECLARATIVE sentences. Keep questions to minimum. You'll come across as more sure of yourself.
Tell her to text you, dont ask. You can even make her ask for her your number by saying "bla bla text me" and not including your number. If she asks then your in good shape.

Good luck

stilettonyc · 2018-08-28T00:11:27+00:00

If her bio was sexual, how do you know shes not an escort? I personally dont ever use Tinder but I know escorts that do.

Outside of that, she sounded a bit flat. She wasn't engaging you in conversation, she was merely answering your questions... Next...

Title	How should I text going forward here? (Tinder number)
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Date	August 27, 2018 8:17 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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