How to be more charming?

informationsilo · 2017-11-12T21:54:14+00:00

Read PUA theory - all kinds, as much as possible - and practice, practice, practice.

Being charming is a mix of intuitive/obvious points (like, learning names, making eye contact, keeping a conversation going without awkward lulls) and counter-intuitive (teasing a girl, being irrationally cocky). Eventually, with enough practice it all becomes second nature.

The simplest formula for getting a girl is from the Mystery Method - an absolute classic book.

Step 1) Attract a girl - Be funny, engaging, confident, interesting, memorable, handsome, masculine, etc. Don't be boring . Make her think "wow, he is cute"

Step 2) Build trust and comfort with girl - Get to know her for real in one-on-one setting. Talk about her interests, her family, her values. Reveal some of your own inner thoughts, feelings so she also feels like she knows you. (But never say too much, keep some mystery). Make her think "he is cute and a really cool, genuine guy that cares about me"

Step 3) Seduce her - If she thinks you are attractive and she feels connected to you, then you can make a move. Kiss her and then keep escalating. Make her think "he is cute, sweet and wants me. I want to do bad things with him"

ImJustSo · 2017-11-12T21:01:51+00:00

What are some key things I should take into consideration?

Practice makes perfect. The only way to get good at speaking to women is to speak to more women.

If tomorrow you were able to have a conversation with one thousand women, then next Friday you'd be able to go on one date an hour all weekend long, for the next entire year.

shakespeareSMG · 2017-11-12T23:20:26+00:00

Take a genuine interest in the person and let them talk about themselves even if your fake it for the evening.

Title	How to be more charming?
Author	ExodusE
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	November 12, 2017 8:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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