I think I've found the weakest link in my chain

I can make most girls laugh no problem (although my humor is dry and understated so it depends if they find that funny)

I can make girls think and often become engrossed in what I'm saying (some don't seem to want to have to think when they're with a guy and obviously I don't do too well with them)

I'm tall, muscular and fairly good looking so I can get many of them physically interested

I can be sort of flirty and drop clever and subtle compliments

But there's something missing

I look around and see guys giving girls piggy backs, tickling, bumping into each other, calling each other by silly nicknames etc and I realise that's what I'm failing to do - to be playful.

I guess it's a form of fliting, but one that's really not in my nature. I'm often described as the funniest guy in the room BUT that's because of my wry observational humor and wit, not because I'm the playful guy making everyone smile.

I honestly feel like being playful is more important than being hilarious or being charming.

Should I work on my playfulness if it's not really in my nature? And what are a few ways to be more playful that work for you guys?